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[–] [email protected] 89 points 10 months ago (3 children)

No. Typically you only rent a plot in a graveyard for 10-30 years, and unless you or your heir(s) extend the lease, the graves will be dug up and used again. By that time most of the old casket and body have disintegrated to a pile of crumbling bones. Those will either be taken out and fully incinerated, or if the decay is progressed to a point where not much is left to begin with, a thin layer of soil covers the remnants and the new casket will simply be put on top.

It's also getting more and more "fashionable" to get incinerated right away, so that's really a non-issue.

[–] [email protected] 42 points 10 months ago (4 children)

There are places in the world with a standard practice of forever plots.

For example, I don't think it's common in NZ for plots to be a time period before disinterment.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 10 months ago

New Zealanders have all that room after the elves left, so that makes sense.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Does this apply to military cemeteries as well?

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[–] [email protected] 55 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (5 children)

Why do we even have graveyards? Embalming chemicals leach out and poison water tables, carbon footprint is horrendous, land is wasted for superstitious nonsense. Just cremate and scatter the ashes.

https://slate.com/technology/2022/10/cemeteries-drinking-tap-water-pollution-aquifers-dead-bodies.html , among others.

[–] [email protected] 47 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I want to be cremated, and then have my ashes condensed into a diamond. I want that diamond to be embedded in the hilt of a sword. I want everybody in my family for generations to be put in the same sword and then in the distant future when the zombies arise, my great great great great grandchild can break the glass and weild the blade honing the power of generations of ancestors in their hand and start lobbing off heads.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 10 months ago

Uhh... Is it too late to change my answer?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago

Well, at least you've got dreams

[–] [email protected] 30 points 10 months ago (7 children)

Or just bury people without embalming them first? As a non-American I find it super weird that it’s the norm in the US. Why would you still do that anyway?

[–] pancakes 13 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I think the idea is so that the empty meat vessel looks tasty and fresh for the funeral.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

It can look fresh enough without embalming if kept cool right? Maybe a little makeup?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago

Embalming? WTF?! I guess I should have watched Six feet under to learn something

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago (2 children)

It has to do with Christianity. Many Christians believe that Christ will come back raising the dead and restoring their bodies

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago

I’m pretty sure most denominations of Christianity bury their dead without embalming them first and have done so for most of history.

[–] Trigger2_2000 4 points 10 months ago (3 children)

I've been a Christian all my life; I'm really, really sure that Christ can not only "restore" a body from nothing but make it much better than it was before. At least, I hope He plans to make it much better 😃

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Nah don't cremate. Bury the body with no box and no preservation. Get those nutrients right back into the soil as fast as possible.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Yes please. This is how I want to be buried. Back to the earth asap.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 10 months ago

There are other methods becoming more widely available In the US too such as Aquamation (alkaline hydrolysis) which yields similar remains like ashes you can spread and human composting (https://recompose.life/) which don’t emit fossil fuel emissions.

Not for everyone, sure, but I wanted to be composted. I liked that I would become a cubic yard of nutrient rich soil in about 30 days and will be utilized for forest restoration.

The mushroom shroud that breaks you down is also super cool but was pretty out of my price range.

[–] EmoDuck 12 points 10 months ago (3 children)

Fucking bullshit that I can't have my relatives eat my corpse when I'm dead. Land of the free my (glazed and roasted) ass

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[–] [email protected] 52 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Im going to lean to no. The world is incredibly empty, and we are squishy and biodegradable.

Graveyards (well, cemeteries) aren't permanent - permanent compared to human lifetime, but not permanent.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

We're going to the way of Toraja people, do some voodoo magic to make the corpse walk to their grave and then after they decompose just store the skull in a cave nearby.

[–] jballs 44 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I highly recommend checking out the catacombs in Paris. It gives you a very clear understanding about what humans do to graveyards when they want the space. There are literally millions of skeletons just thrown down there. Some are stacked in interesting ways, like walls of femurs and piles of skulls. But the vast, vast majority are just heaped into big ass piles of random bones.

Personally, visiting them sold me on the idea of cremation. Otherwise, it's only a matter of time before your graveyard is getting dug up and they're throwing your remains in a pile with some randos.

[–] MyNameIsIgglePiggle 6 points 10 months ago

Yeah fuck randos. They smell.

[–] merc 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Being part of a big pile of bones that can freak out tourists is actually convincing me that being buried is better than being cremated.

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[–] [email protected] 41 points 10 months ago (3 children)

Yes, one day the whole world is going to be a big graveyard.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 10 months ago (1 children)

No, because most people are cremated these days, and over time bones deteriorate. Plus, we can always make new graveyards.

But the big thing is that old graveyards are often “relocated” — the marked graves are dug up and the contents stacked/put closer together with any gravestones or markers stuck closer together above ground.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

most people are cremated these days

Only in very few countries.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Eventually even bones decay, unless fossilized, and fossilized bones are just, well, fancy rocks. So it's not like human remains stick around forever.

[–] Tar_alcaran 7 points 10 months ago

It's not even THAT long. 30-100 years, depending on the environment

[–] [email protected] 14 points 10 months ago (3 children)

There was a panic here in Vancouver (known for it's out of control real estate market) this year and burial plots were going for like $90,000 IIRC.

Don't be too poor to die.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 10 months ago (1 children)

rocks break. humans biodegrade. so no.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago (1 children)

So my rock hard abs won't save me from Time?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Your best bet is to challenge Death to a crunch-off and then win.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Unfortunately Death is the crunch king. Dude is shredded.

[–] PM_ME_FEET_PICS 9 points 10 months ago

As many other have stated, grave spaces are often rented or leased. Then the remains are buried in an ossuary or given back to the family.

Quite a few western graveyards are semi-permanant. Only being dug up and moved if the space is to be reused for something else.

My city, for example, moved its early graveyard as the town expanded and now the area is a parking lot.

There is a cool fact as well with churches and graveyards that haven't moved. Generally the church building itself loses height because of the the bodies buried raises the ground levels by a few feet. This has been observed in the UK and America.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago (1 children)

We'll just go 12 feet under

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

The Jewish Cemetery of Prague has up to a dozen layers because of the tight Jewish Quarter.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Even if we fill every bit of earth with dead bodies, we still have other planets and the empty vacuum of space itself to put them. So no.

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