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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago

Far more positive and civil; people actually engage in their replies instead of the stream of recycled quips. Bad faith discussions usually get called out as such; less astroturfing.

Small-ish forums probably help with that too since users run in the same circles and there’s less overall “noise.” It’s also much more imperative to comment on posts since there may not be much engagement otherwise.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Depends massively on what subreddit on Reddit, and to a lesser degree, what community on the Threadiverse. /r/AskHistorians, /r/seventhworldproblems, /r/Europe, and /r/NFL don't have a whole lot in common.

I think that in terms of content, the Threadiverse today is much closer to very early Reddit than to Reddit over the past ten years or so. Reddit used to have a much heavier tech focus, lot of Linux too, though it tended to be more Lisp, academia, and startups. A lot of the people who came over early on the Threadiverse are far-left; the proportions definitely differ a lot there. I'm pretty sure that there's a higher furry and trans content ratio, but that's harder to judge; it may also just be people using avatars and home instances providing a hint.

A significant chunk of people on here seem extremely depressed. That was definitely not my take on especially early Reddit, which was fairly upbeat (though I do remember one Italian guy on /r/Europe who kept talking about how terrible Italy is today and how much better the 1980s were).

I think that there are more people who are kinda...I'm not sure how to put this politely. A little unglued from reality. I mean, I remember back during Bush's time in office, there being a lot of 9/11 conspiracy stuff on Reddit, but I feel like the proportion of people whose general take on everything feels extremely paranoid is a lot higher.

It definitely feels more international, less US-oriented, to me, and I frequented /r/Europe.

I feel like there are more older people. I have seen some website analytics of Reddit, and as I recall, it averaged something like early twenties. That may have changed over time, but I'd still bet that the median age here is higher.

Most of the subreddits that I used had far more users than even the most-active communities on the Threadiverse. This meant that there was a lot more content. On the other hand, it also meant that it was increasingly-common to spend a lot of time writing something, only for it to be buried under a flood of other content; if one didn't get a comment in pretty early in a post, users just skimming top comments might never see it. That was even more-true for posts -- one's chance of a post attracting attention in a community where a new post arrives every few minutes and many people just view top posts was not good, whereas here, I'm pretty sure that almost everyone on a community sees it. I think that Reddit had a better variety and amount of content to consume, whereas I feel that it's more-rewarding to contribute content here.

For the same smaller-size reason, it's a lot more common here for me to recognize usernames. Especially late Reddit, the chance of recognizing anyone off a subreddit, other than a few extremely-prolific posters, was not high. I'm talking to pseudonyms, sure, but it's "Kolanki, that furry dude that I remember", or "Flying Squid, that guy who mods a bunch of communities", not another user name that I'll probably never see or remember. I think that that affects the environment somewhat, that people act differently in a crowd of people that they "know" than in a crowd of strangers.

The Threadiverse in 2025 isn't a full replacement for me in the sense that Reddit has a subreddit with some level of non-zero activity on virtually any topic remotely of interest that I can think of. There are a few subreddits that I used to read regularly, like /r/cataclysmdda, for the video game Cataclysm: Dark Days Ahead. [email protected] has very little activity, and for most video games, software packages, products, etc there isn't a community. Some subreddits dealt with content creation or all sorts of things, and the userbase just isn't here now to support that. So what I talk about differs somewhat.

I feel like users on the Threadiverse are less aggressive. Maybe it's moderation or the userbase or who-knows-what, but I remember a considerably higher proportion of flamewars on Reddit. I felt that there was a much-higher tendency for people to want to get the last word in on Reddit.

I have seen far less trolling than I did on Reddit (or Slashdot).

It's hard for me to judge the impact of LLM-generated bot comments on Reddit. I didn't personally notice many, at least on the (mostly-not-largest-in-size, so maybe not heavily-targeted) subreddits that I followed, but I've seen plenty of people on both Reddit and on the Threadiverse complaining about LLM-generated comments on Reddit, so unless they were outright wrong, either I couldn't pick up on some or they were targeting larger subreddits. It wasn't to the point that my conversations felt degraded, at least not at the time that I left.

The Threadiverse is smaller, and I think that I've seen content on one community inspire related-topic conversations on another. I don't think I recall that on Reddit.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (4 children)

A significant chunk of people on here seem extremely depressed.

Wait.... are we just gonna let this pass? Not sure how to feel about this...

[–] arudesalad 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

It's a fair point. It feels like I can't look at any news on lemmy without seeing a large amount of doomers convinced the world is going to end by 2030. Some of their points are valid but their view of the future is overwhelmingly depressing and very exaggerated.

When I open lemmy, it's to ignore real life, not to feel even worse about my future

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Solution: don't look at news communities. Only subscribe to communities without news, politics, or tech...

...like theseGENERAL DISCUSSION / QUESTIONS

ART / PHOTOS

ANIMALS

COMICS / GRAPHIC NOVELS

ENTERTAINMENT

GENRES / STYLES

HISTORY

INFORMATION / KNOWLEDGE

OTHER

FEDIVERSE

FINDING NEW/GOOD COMMUNITIES ON LEMMY

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Thanks. There are some good communities on here.

EDIT: I wonder if there should be a community where people pitch existing communities. Like, list a community and why you like it. There's [email protected], but that's really for communities that are just starting out.

investigates

Ah. @[email protected] just mentioned [email protected] on newcommunities.

EDIT2: and if I'd finished reading your comment, it has it at the bottom too.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Well.....

gestures at the world on fire with encroaching fascism all around

[–] captain_aggravated 2 points 1 day ago

What do you think Reddit would have looked like in the 1930's? Great depression, Dustbowls, Nazi Germany...

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

One thing I've noticed is that I'm not met with slurs or death threats every time I post to an android related community. I always hated posting to android related subreddits because of this, especially considering the fact that the mods would punish me instead of the ones being vulgar/aggressive towards me.

So far the only thing the only "bad" thing that I can recall happening to me in an android community here on Lemmy was that a post I made was removed for "not being specific enough to android". I personally think that Lemmy isn't popular enough yet to justify doing that but I do understand their decision.

[–] can 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I personally think that Lemmy isn't popular enough yet to justify doing that but I do understand their decision.

I often feel the same way but that also means there's likely another community of the same name on another instance that would be happy to have the content. It all balances out.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Much more politics, much more to the left, most people seem to actively look for reasons to get offended.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I can't say I agree with the last point. Making a comment on Reddit is a dice-roll of which logical fallacy someone will attack you with. You could say "I like waffles!" and you'd instantly get a reply saying "Oh, so you think pancakes are shit then???"

It makes it genuinely difficult to have a even a mild conversation there.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yeah, reddit definitely wouldn't allow me to sprinkle politics everywhere I go like lemmy does. I think that's partially a result of low engagement and trying to build viewer base, though. Once the satellite communities can kind of survive on their own they will start purging that shit.

I have adhd so I just post trying to get engagement. I like to have 100 different distractions that I can engage with if I get bored.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Fewer bots. Its feels like the early days of reddit

[–] PlzGivHugs 10 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Is least compared to where I spent my time on Reddit before the api was removed, I've actually found Lemmy far more hostile. On Reddit, I found discussion fairly light-hearted with even more divisive discussions generally given the benifit of the doubt. On Lemmy, on the other hand, I can make a relatively uncontroversial statement like, "Steam provides useful tools." and be called a fanboy shill who supports fascists.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

i have had the exact opposite experience, and i post a lot. in my 15+ years on reddit, it got worse and worse to where you either got a negative reply or none at all. on the fediverse i get a lot more decent replies than shitty ones. i havent blocked more than a dozen users in 18 months.

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[–] sbv 4 points 1 day ago

On Lemmy, on the other hand, I can make a relatively uncontroversial statement like, "Steam provides useful tools." and be called a fanboy shill who supports fascists.

I feel the same way: either everyone agrees with a statement, or there's downvotes and snark. Lemmites are here because we have strong beliefs, so that isn't surprising. But it makes me less willing to post/comment.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

I'm lurking more, interacting less. But, seems to be a lot less recycled snark and bot activity here. But after reading some other comments, maybe my experience here is still a bit limited.

[–] otp 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Things are smaller and more intimate (in that I can recognize more usernames).

I've blocked more users here than on Reddit though. Mostly just users that are annoying/spamming/give me really weird vibes. Actually, I don't think I blocked any users when I was on Reddit.

You can tell that Lemmy houses Reddit refugees...and some of them are refugees because they were completely banned on Reddit, and likely deserving, lol

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

I block people because I have a lower tolerance for trolls/assholes. Maybe they could blend in with the crowd on reddit, but here, I’m just not gonna put up with their shit.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

A greater percentage of more mature users, many of whom don’t want to see Lemmy turn into the cesspool that reddit has become

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Most comments mention this, I feel less amount of information (even on 'nerd' topics) and more repetition of same idea/meme. I still use reddit (without account) to find useful info.

Back in reddit days I used it more than I use lemmy nowadays. In many communities, doom scrolling will soon lead you to posts months old here, which is I guess a good thing in some way?

Also this place isn't as congested as reddit so virtually no annoyance like bots and shilling and scams going on.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I don't remember the conversations I would ever have on r*ddit. Probably because I basically never got any form of interaction other than up and down votes on things that weren't niche communities like for Pokemon Reborn/Rejuvenation. I assume it's because I only ever started using that old account around end of summer 2020.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

Really community dependent.

[email protected] is well, casual.

Of course politics and news communities are something else.

[–] Grandwolf319 8 points 1 day ago

Before 2024 it felt like an old school forum.

After that and the election cycle, feels more like Reddit in 2018

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Reddit... Reddit? That was a while ago... huh, I have trouble recalling a previous life...

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Lemmy is a lot "bubblier" than Reddit, I suspect because the communities are smaller. It's a lot easier for a community to have a preferred view on things, even things you wouldn't suspect were part of the community's theme, and if you take the wrong position you'll get pummeled with downvotes more easily.

Not that it doesn't happen on Reddit too, but I see it far more here on Lemmy. I'm still active on both and while I haven't done any formal comparison you're asking how it "feels" and that's definitely how it feels. I speak my mind freely on both platforms but on this one I'm more likely to see a pile of downvotes.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I never used reddit as much as I do the Threadyverse, but I get the feeling that here the mods are much quicker to dele my comments. But this might really be related with how little I used reddit.

When it comes to content, it seems more positive.

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