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because i say either

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[–] Old_Jimmy_Twodicks 40 points 1 week ago

Either works, really.

[–] SonicBlue03 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

Best answer to the question here. Neither either of either is right (or wrong).

[–] sentient_loom 12 points 1 week ago

Neither. I say either.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Ironically, either of them depending on the situation. Sometimes I even express the concept that I am indifferent to the choice between two things or happy with both of them by saying "ee-ther, eye-ther"

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

I definitely use them both together more often than just one. Like you, to express indifference to a choice.

I don't tend to do that with neither though πŸ€” and now I'm thinking too hard, I don't know which I tend to go with.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Both. Context-dependant.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Eye-ther mostly, but like with many words I'll alternate between pronunciations! (You still won't catch me pronouncing "decals" like dee-cals though!)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I can't tell if maybe you're joking, but is there another way to pronounce decal? I could in theory imagine someone saying it like "dick-al" but that seems unlikely.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

"Deckles", rhyming with "speckles".

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

if you don’t mind me asking, what country are you from? I’ve heard people from the us say ee-ther and dee-cals

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

Weird, I didn't know people pronounced it dye-cals /s

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

In my head I pronounce it as "either", but out loud I pronounce it like "either"

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I say this in real life, but when I say it I pronounce it the same both times.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

I don't say either.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I don't. I say either.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

So you say both then?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

I say ether. Every once in a while I find someone infuriated by that, and it gives me much joy.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Either either or either, depending on maybe the context or the phonetics of words used. Kinda like how you say the or the depending on if the next word starts with a vowel or not.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

Either Either or eIther

[–] southsamurai 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I'm in either camp by default, but I'll gladly use either if around other people that do

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

I say Data when I'm taking about the character, but I say data when I am talking about the information.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Like day-duhh, day-tuhh, day-tahh, d8-ahh, d8-uhh, d@-uhh or d@-ahh?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

There's multiple ways up pronounce it?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

There is an Irish rural accent that pronounces it AY-ther.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

There's even a classic jazz song about it.

Let's Call The Whole Thing Off https://youtu.be/J2oEmPP5dTM

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

Oh god of course. I actually don't know how that slipped my mind.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

Ee-ther and nye-ther

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

Whichever one you say, I say the other one.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I use either either and neither neither nor neither either.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

To clarify, that's ether, eyethur, kneethur, nyetheir, kneethur ether, respectively.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Probably eye-ther, but eee-ther on random occasion

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Growing up, I self-taught myself to pronounce this word as "Ee-ther". Then I went to a private teacher and learned that the correct English pronunciation is "Eye-ther". Then I also came to know that the word can be pronounced in both way regarding different accents. Then I stopped caring which pronunciation I was using while speaking. Most of the time, I say "Eye-ther". I utter the later one barely.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago