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Fancy cupcakes are 70% icing, really not that nice and a waste of money

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[–] Kecessa 99 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (8 children)

All billionaires are evil people that decide to accumulate wealth instead of distributing the surplus and living off enough to not have to worry about the future. All. Of. Them.

Yes, even Taylor Swift and Gabe Newell. They have enough money that they could set 100m aside, live off that and charge break-even prices for their products so more people could enjoy them or they could charge the same thing and redirect their share of the profits into charities, they choose not to.

[–] [email protected] 42 points 1 week ago (6 children)

I'm a Taylor Swift fan (not a Swifty) but I'm 100% with you.

I pirate her music (tbf all music). I've gotten into heated arguments on Lemmy on how she's one of the "good" ones.

No such thing as a good billionaire.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago

You also HAVE to exploit people in order to get there.

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[–] [email protected] 60 points 1 week ago (17 children)

We should be using soap and water after popping, toilet paper alone is barbaric

[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 week ago (11 children)

Bum gun or Bidet. The humane way to toilet.

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[–] [email protected] 57 points 1 week ago (8 children)

American cakes, cookies, and breads have waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much sugar. (Eating American white bread hurts my teeth.)

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Had my boss bring over twinkies from the states because I was curious. Holy moly that stuff is sweet, it's like distilled sugar or something.

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[–] [email protected] 47 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

I'm so out of shape right now, it'll probably be whichever one I try to climb next.

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[–] [email protected] 42 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (28 children)

I posted a comment on Reddit telling about how the word racism really means a person who is a subscriber to the pseudoscience that is race.

Tons of people downvoted me then reddit admins removed the content for harassment, of all things. (None of it made sense to me)

I'm sad that people still think that people are different races, and to not be racist you just have to not put one over or under another, when the crux of the problem is fundamentally that people don't get that race was made up because long ago dumb people thought that people that looked different were a literal different species but couldn't prove it so made up the word race as a subcategory in the taxonomic system, but finally scientists realized it's complete bullshit since it's impossible to define, total bullshit, wildly inconsistent, and massively harmful... and I'm sad that people there literally couldn't comprehend that, and got so mad or offended that they censured the information and thought I was arguing against the existence of systemic racism or something that only a dumb piece of shit would misinterpret.

I linked the Wikipedia page for racism which explains all of it, including history and stuff.

I was triggered for like a week trying to figure out what I said wrong, and honestly still kinda bothered.

But, that is what race is: a bigoted idea that different people are different races and shouldn't/can't interbreed. And that's the stupidest bullshit that MOST people don't understand, and I'll die on this hill, explaining that we gotta stop all being racists. Yeah, fix the problems like systemic racism, but stop thinking of people with darker or lighter skin as different - they're just warm weather humans or cold weather humans, the same way buff or skinny humans are. Fuck. We're all literally just humans, an amazing species, capable of adaptation and survival.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think you're right, but imo the disagreement i feels like really stem from the way you put it, as you talk about race in a biological science while they think you're talking about ethnicity(social science?), and then there's this odd fixation with no compromise which kinda what caused the friction, even though i think both party might agree with each other.

Also reddit and online forum is mostly made up of weird people so idk.

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[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Canada will NEVER be the 51st state.

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Fondant isn’t icing and is cheating when making a cake. It also tastes gross.

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 week ago (6 children)

God damn tomato slices in everything from hamburgers to toasted sandwiches as if everyone is supposed to like raw tomato by default is pure discrimination against the non tomato eating populace.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 week ago

Tomatoes are notorious for being impossible to remove from a burger. 6 children died last year trying to remove them. So many vegetable-adverse people put through incredible pain having to ask for it to be held. When will this injustice end?

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[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Depending on how the next four years go, probably Capitol.

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Unless the post itself is a commentary, posters should put their own opinions in the comments, not the title or description.

That way they can be up/downvoted and discussed separately.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 week ago (4 children)
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[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Probably a literal one, I like hillwalking and am clumsy

Metaphorically, it's guitar tonewoods. If you've got a solidbody electric guitar you can make the body out of a goddamn breezeblock and it'll sound absolutely fine. Whatever difference the body/neck material makes is negligible compared to strings, scale length, pickups, resistors, and amps. Acoustic guitars are another matter, but for solidbody electrics it is 99% delusion and marketing

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The world actually did end in 2012.

This is hell.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It should be illegal for vehicles so noisy that I can hear from kilometers away to drive inside cities and close to people.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 week ago (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Also those who haven't become stars.

Sex work is work.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 week ago (8 children)

Ironing clothes is stupid and useless and shouldn't be a thing. I haven't ironed any of my clothes for decades now and they never look any different than the clothes that were ironed. It's a scam! And humanity won't be able to progress if we keep doing it!!

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago

Ironing clothes became a thing when all clothes were made from 100% natural materials.
Today, unless you specifically go out of your way to make sure, chances are that none of your clothes are made from 100% natural materials.
One of the advantages of plastic fibers is that they don't wrinkle as much.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Hard agree, fancy cakes are all looks, taste is secondary.

Give me an ugly tasty cake every damn time!

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 week ago (10 children)

The Petty One: Optical Media is Bad. It has always been and always will be. We used it for as long as we did because there was no better choice. But when it came to music I went straight from tape to mp3 because I never trusted CD's, and I will continue not to trust CD's.

The Serious One That Might Ruffle Feathers: The entire school curriculum of every country should be wiped out -- And replaced with fifteen years of nothing but reading comprehension. We live in an era where information is extremely cheap but knowledge is priceless. And to go from information to knowledge, one needs to have a well developed reading ability and bullshit filter. There's no point memorising a bunch of nonsense when it is easier and faster to use technology -- We stopped doing recitations when we invented writing, you know? -- What IS important is understanding what you are seeing and recognising lies for what they are.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 week ago

Reading comprehension is incredibly important. Bullshit filter also sorely needed. I get very frustrated when I see people falling for obvious false information. I've been shown AI videos that are clearly fake but they believe it.

I think my favorite are conspiracy theories who won't believe something backed with like, facts, but will believe this 30 seconds tik Tok from someone they don't know quoting someone they also don't know.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I don't think I can put into words how much worse my life would be if we followed your second suggestion. There are a great many things I never really wanted to learn about, but I'm incredibly glad I was still taught them - starting from basic stuff (like maths etc) over arts (especially poetry and literary analysis) to sciences (especially physics and chemistry).

I would understand far less about the world, I could never engage as deeply with media as I love to, and I couldn't have built so many things that require holistic insight into our world.

I'd be a far less developed version of myself, because I wouldn't be able to follow my interests the same way.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 week ago (7 children)

Things where better when the internet was one spot in your house. Not in your pocket at all times

Post made using Boost for mobile phone

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Vinyl sounds shit. It reintroduces all the issues digital audio solved decades ago. I have heard vinyl rips made with equipment that costs as much as a new bmw and it has constant and frequent quality issues like static. It also has to downgrade audio sometimes to prevent the needle from physically flying out. It is impossible for vinyl to sound as good as the digital master or flac version of it that it was made from. It WILL always sound worse even thanks to the fact that physical world is very flawed and imprecise.

People arguing otherwise are either deaf or need to look in the mirror and accept the fact that they enjoy vinyl for the experience not the sound quality.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Meh, the under lying extra noise is what those people are looking for and not the purity of the sound. Which supposedly ties back to the inherent sound of live music which isn't cleaned up digitally.

It's all potatoes no matter which kind of audiophile a person is.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Nuclear energy is currently the best way to achieve energetic independence until we find out how to maintain a fusion core running for more than 20 minute.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 week ago (13 children)

Fahrenheit is a perfectly cromulent unit of measure when the use case is for referencing human comfort.

The rage it incites in others on the internet is just a side benefit. It's hilariously awe-inspiring just how wound up some people get over a personal preference for a unit of measure. Mr. Fahrenheit should be proud of what he accomplished.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Analog media was better and more fair to artists, and easier to make money off of (why sell an album when people will stream it), and allowed people to become more intelligent and involved music fans. The digitization and non stop consumption of media cheapened it. Not to mention, I'd bet 90% of young Americans have never heard a good home stereo that actually represents how the music is supposed to sound.

And no, I'm not 80 years old!

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago

First-past-the-post voting should be replaced so people can vote outside the two party system with no spoiler effect.

Electoral Reform Videos

First Past The Post voting (What most states use now)

Videos on alternative electoral systems

STAR voting

Alternative vote

Ranked Choice voting

Range Voting

Single Transferable Vote

Mixed Member Proportional representation

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

Sexuality is the point.

We spend a lot of time pursuing staggeringly and self-evidently pointless and stupid shit while suppressing and teaching being ashamed of sex and sexuality, to the point many just categorize their sexuality under potential trauma if engaged.

If we spent a lot less time grinding for nothing of import and more time fucking one another rather than fucking one another over for paper simulacra of supposed value, our species would be far more well adjusted. Even the difference between less prudish Europe and the puritanical US in general mental health is extremely apparent.

The way we treat sex, as something to shame behind close doors rather than celebrate, as we glorify plastic and silicon garbage, is beyond ridiculous and leads to shame and trauma in girls who become women and anger and resentment in boys that become men. We aren't economic value producing machines, we're fucking machines. We denied that at our peril, and now very few are happy with the state of things. Breathtakingly bad priorities.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (13 children)

Spelling and grammar matter.

At least take a stab at doing it well.

Other than speaking to people, it’s how we interact with others. It can be professionally, casually, or with friends. Friends we can be pretty informal and slap emojis all over if that’s your style. But casually, even online interaction, people should favor more formal writing until “reading the room”. Professionally there’s no excuse, IDGAF how “brilliant” someone might be and suddenly they get a pass for whatever comes down the email pipeline (unless that brilliance comes attached to some bonafide neurodivergence or something), the awful writing I’ve seen come from some “professionals” is anything but.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Johnny Cash's cover of Hurt doesn't deserve the praise it gets. If anyone else recorded it, no one would care. His singing sounds bad.

And to add to it, it's a song about drug addiction and depression....but the music video is a highlight real of how awesome Cash's life was.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Just to be a devil's advocate, his life was pretty full of heavy amphetamine addiction from the late 50s to the 90s. His recording sounds like a man singing about the hurt he no doubt caused to himself and those he loved during the decades of drug abuse, no matter how shiny that life looked from the outside.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

CDs are better than vinyl.

[–] piccolo 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Not true, everytime i put a cd on a record player, it ends up all scratched up.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Branston beans are superior to Heinz beans.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago (20 children)

There should be a general speed limit of 20mph/30kmh on city streets.
Also no parking on public space for any vehicle that isn't for deliveries, emergencies, trades, or people with disabilities.
If you want to park your car at home, or want your customers or employees to park near your business, you need to buy or rent space for parking privately.
Any citizen documenting a parking infraction with photo evidence should have the option of giving police their bank details and will then receive part of the paid fine.
Of course there will be valid exceptions, like a private emergency, moving, a woman in labor, and such.

Just imagine what our cities could be like if there weren't long rows of cars parked along every street.
The freed space could be turned into bicycle lanes, wider sidewalks, outdoor seating for cafes, green lanes, urban gardens and so much more.
Car lanes could be separated from bike paths and sidewalks by hedges in most places.
Children could play and move safely in public.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

Starship Troopers isn't a smart movie pretending to be a dumb movie, it's a moderately intelligent movie with pretensions of being a smart movie pretending to be a dumb movie.

Robocop, on the other hand, is a masterpiece.

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