Indeed. People were very blind to him (and he was trying to keep a mask on) for many years.
I didn't like him from the start, but that's because I knew the story of how he "founded" Tesla.
Indeed. People were very blind to him (and he was trying to keep a mask on) for many years.
I didn't like him from the start, but that's because I knew the story of how he "founded" Tesla.
Oh wow. The sheer amount of tradition surrounding this, with a myriad of local variation, is impossible to keep up with. Then they make up "traditions" on the fly as well. It's so much fun!
Have your B12 levels checked. (Don't assume you have a B-vitamin shortage, GET IT TESTED.)
I saw someone with no fucks left to give play every step and yes, it is serious popcorn time when it happens.
You'd call it Chinese New Year.
There's a whole lot of food involved. SO MUCH FOOD! 😱
Once you hand in notice you can start playing games so that they hustle you out the door with alacrity; you won't have to stay for months.
First, the old tried and true tool: work to rule. Do your job, as described, and no more.
Second, the incompetence gambit. Do your job BADLY. Do what's asked of you, but make dumb mistakes, do things slowly, "accidentally" hand in first draughts (with the correct draught already on your computer so you can produce it when they spot the problem...if they spot the problem in the first place!). You know, that kind of thing. If you're training your replacement, key pieces of misinformation are always fun to insert.
Third, make sure all communications are in something more substantial than speech. If they tell you something vocally, follow up with email summarizing the conversation and what action items you took from the conversation. Ask them to confirm that your understanding was correct so there's records instead of he said/she said. (This is both protection for yourself and fun.) Tinpot dictators really hate being held to account (it's why they favour only verbal communications!), so torture her.
Finally you can play the tardy/absentee game. Come to work increasingly late. Leave work increasingly early. When the complaints start, you can make a subgame with the third technique, driving your nemesis to distraction as you roll this activity back ... only to roll it forward again to test resolve and boundaries.
I mean what's she going to do? Fire you?
I'm in the beginning stages of Spring Festival. I've had three feasts in five days, plus the immediate family feast (which we could better control the contents of).
I think I've gained about 15kg. But in the good way!
How practical! Your "alternative" is ... literally nothing.
I'm still here too.
I use water and soap. For everything. Including my hair. Unscented soap with no industrial chemicals to make it "smell good".
I horrify my coworkers when I tell them this. They're convinced my hair is going to fall out, and that my skin will dry out and slough off despite literally years of me not showing any of this.
I'm pretty sure the makeup industry is purely a scam.
It's about the same in terms of what it does (which means it hallucinates just as strongly and can't be trusted). It just takes less to do it. MUCH less.
I don't know these games (I'm out of the loop on commercial and board games for the past 20-odd years, sadly) but I have loved this mechanism since playing the earliest rummy-family games from China. (Majiang is the most recent of a loooooooooooooooooong line of build-and-discard games in China.) The added spice of worrying if someone is going to use your discard to improve their hand or even complete it before you can do yours is part of why I like playing the rummy family.