I knew it! You do the dick sucking.

To be honest I don't think it does need to keep the users who succeed to stay profitable. It's just they can't handle the numbers not growing every year. There are always new people trying to find a date, and I think a service that wasn't greedy could make something that works for the users and the company both.

Boo is the best dating app I've used outside of Facebook Dating. It's still pretty shitty though, and I wholly agree with your criticism about the discussion threads.

Actually gamifying the use of their app as a social media platform to gain further privileges on the dating side of the app is a genius idea though, but it's executed so poorly. If it had the high quality discussions of Lemmy/Reddit, or the plethora of edgy memes you find on 9GAG, Facebook, iFunny, etc, then it could be a game changer.

I could go on a massive rant about how Tinder is dogshit and every other dating app has been bought out and transformed into yet another Tinder clone by greedy monopolistic cunts who the Federal Trade Commission should have shut down years ago, but I've already wasted a lot of my energy ranting about my shitty experiences before.

Maybe we wouldn't have an incel epidemic if the modern dating experience wasn't so awful for men.

As I've said before, Facebook Dating is the best experience I've had, and that's primarily because Mark Zuckerberg is more motivated by harvesting all your personal information, not by suckering you into paying 4 times the price of a WoW subscription just to see who liked your profile.

Kippo is even more hilarious. Nearly every profile is just trying to recruit you to watch their E girl twitch stream or onlyfans and is not interested in dating.

Sounds like Okcupid to me. I get a lot of matches on there, but they're all either:

• Scammers trying to lull me into a crypto investment scheme.
• E-girls using the platform to plug their OnlyFans
• African and South-East Asian ladies who discovered GPS spoofing and are on the prowl for a Western husband and the means to a green card.

So Boo is full of pussy pics?

I met my wife on the internet before social media, when it was still extremely stigmatized.

People still totally meet and have success on dating sites. A friend of mine and his wife separated about a year ago, a few months ago he got on Bumble, went on some dates, and met someone he's now getting serious with.

Just glad to be out of that field entirely. Married for almost 5 years, met 2 years before that on OkCupid. Apparently she was nervous about our first actual date and her friend told her it was just pizza, she didn't have to marry me. Never been so happy her friend was wrong.

No, actually. I'm really into hookup culture and it's still shit.

It's like, those of us who just want sex have all the "I want a monogamous life partner" people thrown at us, and those of us who want a beautiful relationship have all the "I just want to fuck around" people thrown at us. It's the exact opposite of what anyone wants.

That gives me a brilliant idea though. I should team up with one of my friends who wants a long term relationship. We should refer people to each other.

Long read, just kinda rambling :p

The first guy I 'dated' (early in my life, closeted, neither one of us made it 'official') was a good first experience and stepping stone, and during that time I joined the furry fandom. I found the community very kind and welcoming, and except for fringe cases, it was what I wanted to submerge myself in, likely for life. I was (am) a massive geek, and because of that + other 'weird' factors, I had only a couple friends in grade+middle school, and a half-dozen in high school. But the fandom was so welcoming and non-judgemental, and compared to the hell that 'normal' people were to me, it was a no-brainer that I should start dating other furs. A few months into my second relationship, I made it a rule: furries only.

I lost a few (not) friends, a clan I was a member of booted me, and a few other negative events happened in that first year or so. But all those people are, frankly, shitstains - if you cut a person you've known for a year+ out of your life because of an interest in anthropomorphic animals, you are a narrow-minded dumbfuck. But it was for the best - I've met so many great furs in the 20 years I've been here, and I've been able to speak my mind about almost any topic without fear of judgment or retribution. The vast majority are well-educated and so I geek out easily, once I get comfortable with someone new.

While my perspective on the general public has shifted towards (but not to) the positive side of things over the last decade, I'm not really interesting in broadening my dating pool just to get attacked, harassed, belittled, or worse. Hell, I'm gay, furry, satanic, disabled - the target of many, just because of my beliefs, my body, my existing. But in the fandom, it's not like that. It's comfy and safe here.

For the right person, someone who at the very least understands who I am, what I like, and why... maybe. But if they were really the right person, they'd throw on a fursuit head and come be silly and happy with me. I'm not going to be less 'weird', so if they aren't at my level, they must be willing to rise to the challenge :p

I've seen furs in their teens, with parents at conventions. I've seen grandparents and similar furs at cons, too. And of course, everywhere in between. Life is boring as fuck, and I'm far from the typical 'normal'. So why should my dating and relationships be any different? Give me the 'weird', and skip the haters.

E: and ofc this all applies to flings, too - I tend to catch feelings, so the two go hand-in-hand