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First of all, I don't mean this post as a complaint, maybe more of a warning?

There is teenagers on the fediverse. Most of them don't share their age, for hopefully obvious reasons. I'd say that a lot of the accounts which do a lot of posting/commenting are run by teenagers


because most adults probably wouldn't have the time for that much posting.

While the young people of this generation are generally useless when it comes to something more complicated than microsoft word, the people who are good at technology, usually are very good at it.

most of my friends (most of which don't know the difference between a laptop and a desktop) could understand the fediverse as a concept perfectly when I explained it to them irl.

So, if you're in a really stupid argument with someone, try to remember that there is a small chance they are 14.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 hours ago

While the young people of this generation are generally useless when it comes to something more complicated than microsoft word

Generalizations and eager bootlicking of generational propaganda isn't helpful at all.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 hours ago

Some are easy to spot because they don't understand that being apologetic has little to do with apologizing, for example. 😅

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I was smarter than the rest of you all when I was a teen. It wasn't until I became an adult did I get this stupid.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Hey, fuck you for calling adults stupid. Some of us have been stupid the whole time!

[–] captain_aggravated 1 points 8 hours ago

No, we've definitely gotten dumber as time has gone on. Especially socially; interpersonal skills have basically vanished since I was in high school.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 12 hours ago

Maybe, but I was on the internet as a teen and that went fine, being careful is a general thing in life.

But more importantly: adults have a phone and use it during work ALL the time. So I’m not so sure about the average age of the people commenting on here.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 18 hours ago

It should not be that surprising. Many teenagers are really smart, curious and will find their way here. That said I realise your warning is well intentioned; I hope Lemmy remains a more civil place than Reddit became over the last ten years, for everyone; teenagers included.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

*Are. Not trying to be a jerk if English isn't your first language. Teenagers is a plural noun.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 hours ago

English is my first language, I have no excuse.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (2 children)

Surprise, surprise. Some chunk of Reddit annoyances stem from kids running around amok.

Then moderators make many stupid rules to try to increase quality and overmoderation takes hold

In short time it becomes increasingly annoying to browse let alone post to get past the anti teen rules filter. Not to mention all the young hormones commenting some stuff at you like it is school break slander or smh

One can always change instance though so it isn’t doom and gloom. The kids will have Lemmy.world and nice, enjoy it and have fun. It is the club penguin of Lemmy instances. We knew this would happen

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

Then moderators make many stupid rules to try to increase quality and overmoderation takes hold

This is so true. One of the best decisions I made during my tenure as mod of /r/StarTrek was changing the rules to be spirt-based instead of language-based. People will literally try to lawyer their way around the language of any rule, and it leads to mod burnout when they are getting drawn into rules-debates when it's obvious the person is just trying to get around the spirit of the community's purpose.

For example we had a rule that was literally just "be nice". There's no wriggling around that because it's not some legal text. If someone is ""concerned"" about a request to "be nice" or "be honest", they are not someone we wanted to be around anyway. These are discussion communities, not civil society, not everyone has a right to participate in every single one of them.

As you said the beauty of the fediverse is that each instance can have it's own preferred method of discussion.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (1 children)

Great comment, great moderation. Also by the way it has come to my attention that your instance bans/warns users that merely upvote discovery hate posts? Or was it some other Star Trek instance?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 hours ago

I know this comment is satire (well done... I think) but I want you to it hurt me deep in my bones.

Cheers

I'm clearly not paying enough for a therapist.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 hours ago

I don't think all, or even most, of the low quality content comes from kids.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 17 hours ago

Odd post, but checks out

[–] [email protected] 12 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (1 children)

Listen teens, I'm 40. I was a niteclub bouncer in a town popular with backpackers and partying, I also did a lot of traveling and partying. I was shameless, its a miracle it didnt fall off.

When you say you fucked my mom, its childish and stupid. When I say I fucked your mom while its not likely its possible... and thats worse.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 19 hours ago

Thats usually said by people in the 9 - 13 age group now.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

But don’t assume everyone who is very active is a teenagers.

Some of us aren’t ;).

And you don’t have to understand federation to use lemmy. I’ve brought a couple of gen-z ers here. Get them to download voyager. Voyger automatically suggests lemm.ee for account creation. And then you just use it like reddit. Super simple.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I don't assume all of them are.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

Knowing a couple of the most active accounts. None of them are teenagers, in all cases middle aged men.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (6 children)

Most of us would post on forums as teens back in the day, so it’s hypocritical to try to keep them from doing it too. The only places we should run them off would be communities we specifically make for adults. They don’t necessarily have to be NSFW. Sometimes it’s just nice to have a community where everyone is old enough that they get the same references and are in similar stages in life.

General music and hobby related communities really shouldn’t be blocked off, though.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 22 hours ago

A friend and I just yesterday talked about that and how we both visited some random sites/communities back then. How we had ICQ Chats with adults as 13-somethings, phone calls, about the blogosphere, how some Internet friends asked whether you needed something and send it on a disc via Mail.

I suppose if I were a teenager again, I would be here too.

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[–] [email protected] 144 points 1 day ago (29 children)

WARNING To the People of Earth: Teenagers exist. BEWARE

[–] [email protected] 2 points 20 hours ago

I actually do appreciate this reminder

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 23 hours ago

14 going on 40 so it will be some spirited ebeef. No quarter will be given

[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 day ago (2 children)

This is actually a good thing - teenagers are known to bring niche things into popular culture! For some reason the whole of society kind of cares what they think is cool

[–] [email protected] 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

It's just so tiring to discuss something like politics with someone who is literally 12.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

I agree. Discussing politics should require some form of age verification! Reading the myopic takes are enough torture on their own, let alone having to contend with them.

(Yes, this is hyperbole. If y'all come for me I'll laugh really hard at you.)

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Most free time, rich teens spending their parents money drive our trends probably , not even probably thats most influencers, like alix earle , its funny af that all the girls ik that repost eat the rich and shit follow her and taylor swift

[–] RowRowRowYourBot 28 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Honestly as an older person it very much feels like a lot of Lemmy is under 25. It's the little things like not understanding the historical context that something from the past fits in while simultaneously telling me Im wrong about the time that I lived through.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 20 hours ago

Assuming someone to develop a sufficient consciousness of their time starting with age 10 that would mean anything before 2010.

In all practical matter, people who are 25 now, cannot have any practical recollection of the US invasion of Iraq and are only having broad ideas of the 2007 financial crisis.

That is indeed scary.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 day ago (4 children)

You are either a 14 year old socialist furry or a 35 year old Linux user on the fedi. No in between

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 23 hours ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 day ago (2 children)

As a teenager who is relatively tech-savvy and on the fediverse, can confirm. I think it's gotten to the point where even less technically inclined people can join fairly easily, but the more savvy are usually the first to flee from enshittifying platforms so we see a lot more of them here.

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