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This is so true. One of the best decisions I made during my tenure as mod of /r/StarTrek was changing the rules to be spirt-based instead of language-based. People will literally try to lawyer their way around the language of any rule, and it gets exhausting for mods to get drawn into debates when it's obvious the person is trying to get around the spirit of the community's purpose.
For example we had a rule that was literally just "be nice" (vs what a lot of communities have which is "don't be uncivil" followed by a 1000 item list of uncivil things that nobody will read and only exists for mods to point to after the fact). We got a lot of pushback like "who decides what being nice means?" (to which I would reply "if you truly don't know what 'nice' means then you need to ask your mother) but if someone is ""concerned"" about a rule to "be nice" or "honest", they are probably not someone that needs to be around anyway. It's a discussion community, not civil society, not everyone has a right to participate.
As you said the beauty of the fediverse is that each instance can have it's own styles.
Great comment, great moderation. Also by the way it has come to my attention that your instance bans/warns users that merely upvote discovery hate posts? Or was it some other Star Trek instance?