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For me, it was that the Internet never forgets and that you should never enter your real name. In my opinion, both of these rules are now completely ignored.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago

Don't believe everything you see. Actually I was taught that about TV, but for some reason the old folks forgot about it being applicable everywhere in life, not just on TV. They also forget about it on TV too.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago

Stay anonymous

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago

Don't be a dick.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

1.0 ratio is the low bar, leech

[–] [email protected] 24 points 2 days ago

Don't Feed the trolls

[–] [email protected] 35 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The same people who warned us about the dangers of the internet and not to believe everything, are now the ones readily falling for and spreading conspiracies and lies from social media.

It's tragic.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago

I suspect now it was never about "don't believe everything", it's just been "believe what I believe". Which I suppose follows Nietzsche's thought on the transition from religion to ideology.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

the rule should be that you don't use your name until you're like 35 and understand how to use it properly

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Make sure you use the right type of search engine for the type of information you want.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Since when this was a rule rule??

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Before Google dominated you had a different search engine for blogs, mp3s, warez, link pages etc. You also had directories where the content of the web was neatly organised by topic.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 20 hours ago

Never lived on this era but this feels life a fresh breath of peaceful life.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 days ago

Read -> Comprehend -> Post

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Bottom-posting eMails and Usenet posts.

Fuck you, Microsoft. Bottom-posting replies is the correct way to reply.

[–] brb 14 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Is bottom-posting some kind of kink I'm not aware of?

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 2 days ago

Don't meet people from online.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

There always have been the nick picks. But now sometimes there is barely any connection between the post and the comments. Like two people with multiple strokes distributed between them having an angry teams call.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 days ago
[–] [email protected] 63 points 3 days ago

Don't share your personal information online.

Yeah that's definitely not being followed anymore.

[–] [email protected] 59 points 3 days ago (7 children)

Don't give your credit card details over the internet.

Nowadays people have them saved in their damn browser for convenience.

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[–] [email protected] 60 points 3 days ago (3 children)

"Don't believe everything you read on the internet." -Abraham Lincoln

Social media, a gorilla getting shot, two US elections, and GenAI later, we have completely fallen off this one simple rule.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

The first rule of usenet.

[–] [email protected] 135 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Dont believe anyone on the internet.

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[–] [email protected] 111 points 3 days ago (6 children)

Don't feed the trolls.

Of course nowadays its nearly impossible to tell whos spouting racial slurs to get folks mad and whos doing it because they're just an asshole.

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[–] [email protected] 131 points 3 days ago (18 children)

Don’t pick up the phone if someone is online… I’m old

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[–] [email protected] 101 points 3 days ago (4 children)

When you share something cool, link back to the original creator or where you found it from.

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[–] Grandwolf319 54 points 3 days ago (3 children)

You should use the Internet to get info out of it, not put your info there. If you do want to put info, it should never be traceable to you.

I just don’t get why people want so much of their life online…

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[–] [email protected] 43 points 3 days ago (11 children)

Basic forum etiquette. It's horrifying at work seeing teams "teams" (forums) used like chats, all the cross-posting and thread necromancy, people completely unable to keep topics confined to the appropriate sub-forum, etc

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[–] [email protected] 75 points 3 days ago

When reading a long text, disconnect from the internet as soon as it has loaded so you don't pay for the time you spend reading.

[–] [email protected] 86 points 3 days ago (10 children)

Social media killed online aliases and I have a hard time deciding if we're all worse for it.

Instinctively I still stick by that, though, as you can tell by my anonymous profile with no bio, but when I volunteer any amount of personal info these days people are often confused that I'm not sharing openly who I am or where I'm from. Every time someone does that it weirds me out because in the 90s telling (and asking) people those things would have been such a suspicious, sketchy move.

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[–] [email protected] 36 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Don't talk to strangers.

Searching things is easy so don't post something without checking it. People now don't make the slightest effort to verify a rumor or conspiracy crap.

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[–] [email protected] 71 points 3 days ago (3 children)
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[–] [email protected] 52 points 3 days ago (13 children)
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[–] [email protected] 61 points 3 days ago (20 children)

I'm a faithful follower of never using your real name in social parts of the internet. We don't need to know and we don't want to know. The only ones who would want to know are scammers or people wanting to give you a shitty time. I only use my real name online for people and places in where it's required like talking to agents from my bank, insurance .etc And very few friends know my real name through FB and the circle anyways.

Don't send nudes online to anybody. I know of some communities where people happily are flaunting it one moment then they make a post later whining about them being exploited or that they thought they were crafty hiding the nudes from someone they're married with. They delete it but they're too naive to think that what's already out there, has most likely been saved by hundreds by now, so you're fucked either way.

Another is, is that if you want to be understood, then you need to use proper spelling and grammar. I miss the days when you got kicked at because you used 'u' in replacement of 'you'. It's just two fucking extra letters you lazy asshole. These days saying stupid shit like; 'yah fr u tha fam' is somehow a complete sentence. No, I'm going to give you shit for it and if you want me to bother caring with what you have to say, fucking make some sense. I don't even get offended by insults when they're poorly spelled, it just tells me what kind of an inept moron you are.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 3 days ago (4 children)

A/S/L should be replied when you join a chat room

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 days ago

69/yes/flavourtown

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