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[–] [email protected] 17 points 7 months ago (4 children)

I mean, I can think of plenty of slurs with innocuous origins. It's about how they're used.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I'm tempted to start a community about the country between Chad and Mali... A nice wholesome community... I'm completely unqualified and know nothing about it but the amount of removed words would be amusing...

[–] [email protected] 14 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I hope you have better luck than I did with my community about Scunthorpe

[–] vaultdweller013 1 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Dont know nothin' about Scunthorpe but I know about Cockthorpe, learned about it from a couple of hunters.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago

True, though "bitchin'" isn't used as a slur in this context, it's slang for "cool." Since like 1970 too, it isn't some "new rizz."

If we want to get technical, a slur is "A disparaging remark; an aspersion." So by the dictionary, any negative remark, especially one that is a false or damaging accusation or insinuation, is "a slur." Therefore "you are a silly goose" counts as a slur, as it can be contextually negative to be seen as silly, and it is false to insinuate that you are a water fowl.

We don't really treat the word "slur" in real life as it's definition would suggest, or to reign in my above joke a bit, words like "fuckface" or "dick" would commonly be considered a slur. Instead they're just considered negative remarks by the community at large, to be a "slur" in the eyes of the public (not the dictionary) it has to have something more than just "bad."

I posit that "bitch" is truly no different than those common "bad" words, and should not be considered a slur. Frankly, same for "cunt."

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago (2 children)

So do they consider the use or no?

[–] can 10 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

No, it's automatic based on a filter list. I wonder if it accounts for other languages though.

[–] can 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[–] can 6 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Any ml users want to let me know if it filtered? I set my language to French for that comment.

lmao

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Haven't read their policy -- simply saying origin is a useless way to determine whether or not something is a slur.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Well yeah, which is why a blanket ban on "bitch" would be stupid

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago (1 children)

A blanket ban on any word won't do anything to fix the problem.

[–] can 6 points 7 months ago

Originally they weren't even going to let admins turn it off.

[–] starman2112 -1 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

The newest example being "DEI"

I'm sorry have y'all not seen racists using that as a slur lately? Saw a dude refer to Baltimore's "DEI mayor" the other day

[–] can 2 points 7 months ago