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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I repainted the kitchen wall, fixed the stove, removed soot marks from everything and even got the burned pot cleaned after setting an accidental fire. My parents still don't know. I was 14 :)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

You saved the day for yourself there

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (3 children)

A Playboy Playmate of the Month once asked ME out on a date.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Did you know they were a playmate of the month when they asked you out?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I did, she was a hired model for my job's booth at a trade show. So prior to meeting her I knew who she was. She was super cool and normal, just happened to be an absolute smoke show.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Haha that's pretty neat

[–] LlamaSutra 4 points 1 year ago

Tell us more!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Me, trying to remember which is playBOY and which is playGIRL: πŸ€”

[–] LlamaSutra 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I got past decades-long depression and am mostly unaffected by PTSD by taking psilocybin mushrooms and working on myself.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Congratulations! So glad you're doing better now :)

[–] LlamaSutra 1 points 1 year ago

Thank you! Occasionally something will trigger the PTSD but I’m able to come back from it quickly and control myself so I don’t revert to a previous personality.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've saved a few dozen kids (that I know of) from genital mutilation. I'm pretty happy with that, but it's not exactly watercooler conversation.

[–] kersploosh 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Just on the internet, talking to people about it - a bunch on reddit, a bunch on various pre-reddit forums. I was/am a mod on /r/intactivism, but who knows where I'll end up.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I was able to reassemble my own pc, and get it working nicely after it messed up. I was so stressed I would break something. But I didn't, and the difference in speed was crazy. I figured out that there were airflow problems, and there was so much dust.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Nice, that feels so good when you solve your own problem like that. I've opened my laptop many times before but I haven't dealt with an actual desktop - I'd have the same fears as you

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I feel like I'd be more scared with a laptop, because everything is smaller and more delicate. I don't trust my hands with things that are too intricate.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I flashed ROMs every week for 5 years and never hardbricked a phone

[–] mcc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

So how did you recover your hardbricked phone 5 years ago when you flashed for the first time?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I never hard bricked a device, only soft brick

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Can you explain what this means?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Android phones have the Android OS from Google(or a modified version by the manufacturer of the phone).
We can install other unofficial versions of Android(modified by other people).

But it is risky, as there is a chance that it can go wrong 'brick' your phone. It's named so, because on failure, your phone may become unresponsive and would only be as useful as a brick or paper-weight.
There's hard-bricking and soft-bricking, where the latter is used when the bricking can be fixed/reversed.

This link maybe better at explaining than I am:
https://android.stackexchange.com/questions/6028/what-is-the-meaning-of-flashing-a-custom-rom

[–] AboveAverageJoe 4 points 1 year ago

Not sure if number 1 proudest, but today I’m proud of the large patch of invasive plant species that I destroyed by hand (no chemicals), and replaced with native species.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I am still alive despite the depression, suicidal thoughts, and psychotic episodes. Don't take just existing for granted.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I'm building a platform for language learners. It agregates information about words from several webpages and keep tracks of words you've searched and gives you the option to test yourself, add comments on a word, and there is also the option for you to track other users and give them tips.

It works well, even if a bit ugly, and I have only shared it with my GF.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It's a silly story, and a self-centered one.

Went from "I'm scared to open my PC" to knowing from how to mount one entirely from stratch in 4 days purely because my desktop didn't boot after I made several changes to it. In each of these 4 days I woke up with joy, because I would learn something new even if I was failing miserably and my hands were covered in a dozen tiny cuts from the sharp metallic frame. Risked bricking my BIOS, rushed for stores to get a battery and a beeper before they closed up until Monday, a real adventure.

As an almost-failed CS student who gaslighted myself in "I'm not good with the subject and I don't like it", it was pretty ecstatic to see not only I grasped the concepts with ease, but I also had an underlying love for it without the pressure of the rigid academic system. I very casually was reading things I wouldn't have guessed I could understand before the entire process started. In the classroom, even something like the order of boot was seen as difficult. On my house, I self-taught myself that in 2 minutes just by reading the fucking fluxogram in Wikipedia.

It is rather minor, and not heroic like most, but it was a rather hard switch between "I'm doomed to be a closeted hikikomori living with my narcissistic family until I give up and kill myself or go live in the street" and "there is hope, there is something I like doing, there is something I'm good at, my father was wrong, the incel bullies who scared me were wrong, I should stop carrying the burdens of bitter losers who raped my brilliance in order to feed their ego"

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