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I have fully transitioned to using Lemmy and Mastodon right when third party apps weren't allowed on Spez's place anymore, so I don't know how it is over there anymore.

What do you use? Are you still switching between the two, essentially dualbooting?

What other social media do you use? How do you feel about Fediverse social media platforms in general?

(I'm sorry if I'm the 100th person to ask this on here...)

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 hours ago

Yes but I am enjoying Bluesky a lot this week in the wake of its rapid expansion while that hellpit Twitter burns. A really nice feature is that they have block lists, where someone makes a list of MAGA people or whatever and you can block them all at a click.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 hours ago

I only use lemmy. Unless youtube counts but I don't think so.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 hours ago

I'd say I actively use Lemmy and Discord nowadays (as in, I'm making new posts there). Some times I leave a comment under a YouTube video, other times I lurk Reddit just to see what other people have said about XYZ topic.

I used to be a very frequent user of Reddit during much of my adolescence, but got tired of it a few months ago. I'm not exactly sure what caused it, maybe the increased toxicity, or that some subreddits got boring after they reached a certain number of subscribers. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[–] [email protected] 4 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

Lemmy is now. Followed by reddit, which I visit less and less. And no it doesn't feel like dual booting, there seem to be so many of the same people here, with the same issues and anger. But I prefer the lemmy UI and absense of ads. The lack of a personal karma total might be keeping at least some of them away.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 14 hours ago

I use Cara, but that's because I am an artist.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

Lemmy and BlueSky (primarily Lemmy).

BlueSky’s mobile app is such a clone of twitter, transitioning is nearly seamless for the average user. I tried mastodon at first, but it felt pretty rocky and different (and I’m rather techy).

Between BlueSky and Voyager for Lemmy (I was an Apollo user on Reddit), my user experience hasn’t changed at all – except for the pleasant lack of bots and Nazis on both platforms.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

FYI the official Mastodon mobile app is pretty limited; you can't even view the global timeline (the web clients are fine). Most Mastodon users prefer using unofficial apps such as Tusky, Fedilab, or Megalodon.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 14 hours ago

Friendica is also nice and looks like 2008ish Twitter but not so full, sadly. For reference if anyone interested:

[–] [email protected] 1 points 13 hours ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 1 points 13 hours ago

Lemmy is the only app I use because I want to. Others I gave to use for work etc.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 17 hours ago

Mastodon mostly.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 14 hours ago

Mastodon and lemmy, can't choose

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

It is. Both lemmy and Mastodon.

I cannot use Reddit or Twitter anymore.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

It is, I don't go on Reddit anymore, it's insanely toxic. I've gotten all I could've gotten from there anyway. I only use Lemmy nowadays.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's my only social media. I have Voyager, and it's all I need. I never used FB or Twitter, or anything other than Reddit. And I'm done with that cesspool.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 17 hours ago

I made a new account recently, I used to be on Lemmy.world, but as I start to learned more about how the fediverse works, I wanted to get away from the giant main instance, help spread the users out.

Perhaps there is a way to transfer some account history? I didn't find any, so now I'm a Fediverse baby again.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

Lemmy has replaced reddit for me.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Been trying lemmy for a few months, and I have mixed feelings. Not going back to reddit even if hell freezes but if only I could strip the orange turd and the jumping dipshit (and all of us politics) from my feed I’d enjoy it way more. This is most certainly user error, so if anyone has any recommendations I would welcome them. Being on .world is the problem?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago

The voyager client has filters you could use to try and filter things out.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Like the others have said, use Voyager to filter out the instances and communities you don't want to see.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 hours ago

Ive been using descovery for a while. It works mostly great. I have to learn a bit better how this works as instances and filters go, but I think I got it figured out for the better part

I love the helpful feeling you get from people responses here, not those snarky one liners replies that add nothing (but I’ve done plenty of those on reddit, don’t want to bring that vibe here, although I might have failed already)

I’ll be better, I promise

[–] [email protected] 3 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

The instance could be a problem if you scroll through the 'local' feed often and thats where you see a lot of things you don't wish to see. A European or special interest instance might suit your context, (Portuguese?), better.

I spend more time on my 'local' (aussie zone) feed than 'subscribed' or 'all' and its definitely nicer, so a move like this can work.

But you could also optimise your own 'subscriber' feed as another option.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Well thanks I’ll try your suggestions. I tried a portuguese instance but it was really slow going, maybe I should check again. Truth is I haven’t entirely figured how this works and to be truthful staying out of social media as whole has been refreshing. But I find the lack of users and memes from 10 years ago kinda charming, being a decades old reddit user, lemmy holds some of the niceness of reddit in the old years so I’ll stick around. Would mastodon be any better? Have no interest on xitter clones like bluesky

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

No idea on Mastodon myself. I've heard a couple interviews of the developer, seems like a cool guy. But thats about all i can say.

I's playing round with this instance and community finder the other night, works really well. Might be useful to find a more active community that you'll enjoy.

https://lemmyverse.net/communities

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

Mastodon is single developer? 🤔

And thanks for the list, a question I should post on “no stupid questions “ I need to create a new account on every instance I want to explore, right? This is a rabbit hole inside a rabbit hole 😂

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Mastodon is single developer

I think he has a few people with him now. But i listened to the interview at the start of the year, so i'm starting to the detail.

Exploring instances should be as easy as looking up any other website. At least to get their 'local' front page. Or just navigate to them through that link above.

As an example you could look up jlai.lu, a french instance. They're pretty active.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 hours ago

Didn’t know about that, now I’m gonna research it. And thanks!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

So, further to mu previous comment, no you shouldn't need to create an account on each instance you want to explore. At best creating an account on the instance might make navigability better.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I just made my first post, chose asklemmy 🤷‍♂️

It went ok so far, testing the waters, you people have been nice and helpful 🙏

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 hours ago

Welcome!!! Come over to Aussie Zone for a banter anytime you like!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

The Connect app (Android) allows filters by both keywords and URLs; not only do I not see anything with something in the title that I don't want to hear about, but also nothing from certain websites I don't either.

Did someone say "echochamber vides intensifies"? Yeah yeah, my eyeballs, my choice.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 hours ago

I’m using discovery in ios phone mostly. It works nice once you learn how (I’m starting to sound like my old man)

But thanks for the help, you’re in my christmas list now

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

yeah i basically only use lemmy and watch youtube videos, or i pirate media, play games with friends, or do stupid stuff with my computer that i shouldnt be allowed to do

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

Yeah, pretty much. This and Discord really. Signal for P2P messaging.

[–] [email protected] 51 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Same for me. Mostly using Lemmy and Mastodon since they’re filling two different roles. I also reluctantly still use Instagram since all my friends are on it.

Some people seem to see it as a negative that Mastodon with its linear feed doesn’t get them nearly as addicted as corporate social media but for me that’s a huge plus.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago

Same! The "lack of content" is really refreshing somehow.

Not having some proprietary algorithm spoon-feed you content is very nice. It literally only shows you exactly what you tell it to.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Started on lemmy today after reddit perma banned my 14 year old account for breaking the first rule of reddit. I may have told some to kill themselves. I'm definitely in the wrong but I don't care I'm taking the ban personally and never using it again.

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[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Lemmy is the only one I'll log onto and the only one I have as an app.

Sometimes though, I'll miss a super specific community from the place spez ruined, and scroll through it in DuckDuckGo browser.

Anything that has an intransparent, engagement driving, ad laden algorithm that determines what you do and don't see is thoroughly unappealing to me. At least now that I'm a little more tech savvy and anti-corporate.

I guess I do technically have a Facebook account still because I don't remember the password of either that account or the associated email address. I used that for local flea market and food sharing groups up until maybe 6 years ago.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Yeah I'm on Lemmy and Mastodon. I also still watch YouTube. They haven't passed whatever my threshold is for suckitude, yet. I'm sure it's coming.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Besides this place, I also use Imgur and YouTube to help fill in the void after leaving reddit. I'm considering joining Bluesky and Mastodon as well but I've never used a Twitter-like interface before so it's intimidating.

Unfortunately I still haven't found a suitable replacement for niche communities. There's always forums, but I got too used to points-based communities, and because comments are sorted chronologically, it's hard to know what's crap and what's actual useful information. Which can suck if you need a good opinion on something. 20-30 years ago that wouldn't have even bothered me, cause forums were the only social media I knew then. But times have changed.

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