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[–] [email protected] 103 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Had to read the article to find out if the headline was describing a good trend or a bad trend. I'm so old 👴

[–] [email protected] 26 points 2 months ago (2 children)

So good trend or bad trend?

I can't read the article, does anyone have an archive link?

[–] [email protected] 48 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Good trend.

Why it matters: The consequences are steeper for those supporting former President Trump.

By the numbers: 43% of people between the ages of 18 and 34 say they’d have a more negative view of a date if told they voted for Trump, according to a new Generation Lab poll.

17% say they’d have a more positive view, and 40% say the information would make no difference.

[–] Hideakikarate 37 points 2 months ago (1 children)

The 17% is worrying, but that 40% is worse.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

The 17% is worrying

Agreed

but that 40% is worse

I'm assuming those 40% just want to get laid and that's all they care about. Lol, I'm not young, but I remember being young.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago

Keep in mind Trumpers hate birth control and that one night stand might turn to an 18 year marathon with a crazy parent.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

Do we know how many of the 40% were dudes?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

What happens when you attempt to read the article? It's an Axios article. Free with no paywall.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Not OP, but for me a window popped up and asked for my email, without any button or other option to opt out/make it go away. I got around it by using “Reader” Mode.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Hmm. On my phone, the link just opens the article in a browser.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

It has an annoying nagwall asking you to sign up with an email, but that doesn't show up if javascript is disabled or if using reader mode on your browser. It's also easy enough to get rid of by using developer tools in your browser if you're a bit tech minded.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Yeah, I met my (now) wife over 20 years ago. I blissfully missed app dating and I always make sure she wears her seatbelt and what-not so that never changes.

[–] stringere 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

always make sure she wears her seatbelt and what-not

Got a good brand recommendation for what-nots? My wife's been asking for one.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

I usually check Etsy, but you can often find good ones thrifting too.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Right? How am I supposed to know what "left" implies in some random app's context?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Left and right are a de facto standard in dating apps. It's a terrible UI but they all do it now.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago

Smartphones didn't even exist last time I was dating.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (2 children)

The thing that trips me up, as a dinosaur, is whether "swipe left" refers to the direction your hand moves or the direction that the viewport is traveling. If I scroll by moving my finger to the left, now I'm looking at stuff that was previously on my right.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

In tinder when you swipe, the picture itself moves, not the whole screen.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I have this issue with my stove top, which burner goes to with nob/diagram. Does the picture line flat or flip over. I only every end up using the one with both high and low cause it's easy to tell which it is.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Does the picture line flat or flip over

I'm gonna need a drawing or video to describe this in 3d terms because it makes little sense

The burners should be in a representation that when looking at them dead-on you're looking at them as you would the burners top-down

So if you squat down and make the burner icon eye-level to you, then stand up and look down at the burners at a 90 degree angle down, that's how they line up

A | B

C | D

If that's your image then A is the back-left burner on your stovetop, and D would be the one closest to you on the right

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I am a weirdo and always get things backwards that the rest of the population has no trouble with.

Righty-tighty, lefty-loosey made no sense when I was a kid because I focused on the bottom of the thing I was spinning instead of the top.

Same with the stove. Wtf is the "front" burner? I mapped the four burners to the four seats of a car in my head, and I thought the front burner would be the ones farther away from me. 🫨

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

I mapped the four burners to the four seats of a car in my head, and I thought the front burner would be the ones farther away from me

That's absolutely right, but you forgot to account for the fact that the stove doesn't face the same way you do, you're facing it and it is facing you, like a head on car collision

[–] stringere 2 points 2 months ago

And why are they stealing it? I don't even know where to start planning a caper involving left theft. Guess I could start from the right...

[–] [email protected] 78 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (6 children)

I was dating hot and heavy in 2020-2023, on several dating sites. Women either said they weren't political or not interested. That's a big, fat flag, "If you're Republican, STFU about it." Others simply stated that MAGA need not apply.

I was talking to a potential date (who turned out great!) and joked that I was something of a redneck.

"Uh... exactly how redneck?"

"I loathe Trump if that's what you're asking."

"OK. Whew. Thanks, just had to check."

And this was in NW Florida, about as conservative an area as it gets. There were very few women openly looking for conservative men, and I only remember a single MAGA nut.

Related note; I can't tell you how many women I met, including my wife, who said they would go on a date and the man would start going off about Trump bullshit. Imagine that. On a first date.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 2 months ago

Better the first date than 6 months in.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I post on a message board that has absolutely nothing to do with politics. Of course, there are always topics that come up that someone has a political opinion about, so occasionally the board devolves into some political bickering.

However, at some point, I realized every time one of the posts became political it was because a conservative brought politics into it. I thought maybe it was just my bias and overlooked it when it was a leftwing/liberal. . .but nope, every time I noticed it getting political from there on out, it was always, without a doubt, a conservative who had to bring their politics into it.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago

I wish they'd all fucking vote...

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago

Related note; I can’t tell you how many women I met, including my wife, who said they would go on a date and the man would start going off about Trump bullshit. Imagine that. On a first date.

I find that the magabrainz will even start up with that shit on an elevator if they can. If you think of con memes as a brainworm from another planet that is seeking to infect the entire human race, it makes a lot more sense...they seek to spread that shit in nearly every interaction, even with people they have just met. Invasion of the Body Snatchers was supposedly about the red scare, but I find it far more like the way the redcoats behave...

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You really went turbo mode with that dating, huh

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

If you aim to catch a fish, it's best to sink several hooks in the water. Same for job hunting. The neighbors were making fun of me bringing home so many women. I was looking for a solid relationship!

Get past 40-45 with all your hair and teeth, don't be (too) fat, have a decent personality and interests, can't beat 'em off with a stick. Problem is, most all of us are damaged by then. :(

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

I was referring to the alacrity at which you tied the knot.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Well yeah, anyone who votes for Trump is admitting that they view a rapist and lying narcissist who cheated on his pregnant wife as a leader. Who the fuck in their right mind would want to date that?

[–] [email protected] 62 points 2 months ago (5 children)

I think it's brilliant that people publicise their political affiliations - it's like a big red flag to either avoid certain topics... or just avoid them altogether.

It's like Social Interaction for Dummies.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Last time I was on the dating market some of these people popped up on the dating app. Holy hell and it were always the maniacs that had to make their dumbassery public.

My favourite was that young lady who was extremely anti vax and tried to make it a “my body my choice” kind of thing. Everything read like she died on that hill a couple of times already.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

That's something that often occurred to me when I saw some antima/antiva Karen during Peak Covid - I felt sorry for anyone that was their SO, most especially if they were married to them, assuming they weren't down for that level of crazy.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (2 children)

It's not a difficult thing to sniff out. You just have to mention something innocuous like toilet paper and suddenly you'll know more or less which side of center that person is on.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago

Good to start with the important questions: Toilet paper! Facing inwards or outwards?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

Ever since donnie it became something almost impossible to avoid finding out. Most redhats would out themselves pretty quickly. And then Covid happened, and with things like masks and vaccines, the crazies found it nearly impossible to hide themselves...I'm sure there are still a few being quiet, but I think once the fauxbrain really takes hold, they seem to find it impossible to NOT broadcast their assholery.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago

I never swiped right on a lady firing a gun. Or taking a picture in the mirror of a public bathroom. Not the same thing. I just remembered the second one as I mentioned the first.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Yeah well didn’t stop boebert

[–] [email protected] 28 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You're correct - it was the ushers that stopped boebert.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago

I should not be browsing lemmy when I’m eating. Thanks bazus. You win this one lol

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

It's kind of like that stupid red hat the gomers like to wear (when they feel they can - I notice a lot of them don't wear it all the time, though - imagine that. It's almost like they know what that hat really means to normal Americans.)

When I see someone wearing that, now I know it's someone I can just skip over. It's like wearing a "do not talk to me" shirt.

[–] [email protected] 39 points 2 months ago

Having experienced an awful divorce from someone not even a Trump voter -

A Trump voter is a good indication that they aren't very intelligent people, and you're gonna have a bad time.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Alternative headline: "This Just In: The Youth Swipe (and Skew Politically) Left, But Will They Pokemon-Go To The Polls?"

According to the study in the article, maybe not? While 43% of those surveyed would feel negatively if their potential hookup was voting Trump, 40% wouldn't care; and 65% don't even give a shit if their next date plans to sit out the next election.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

So the youth still play Pokémon go? That game is almost a decade old at this point.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago

My boomer trait is that I never did online dating and I don't know which swipe is the good direction.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago

When my wife and I split up due to the pressures of early COVID and I entered the dating scene again this was super common. Women straight up having "if you voted for trump/wear a red hat/like maga/etc. fuck off"

Girl I really gelled with and I went on a little date and within 5m of walking down the street she'd confirmed in person I wasn't some secret maga dickhead and was so relieved she went on a rant about them that ended in her yelling "fuck Donald Trump" at full volume in frustration

I am so not surprised it's gotten more common

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Maybe trump voters shouldn't multiply?

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