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[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I don't know but anecdotally I've experienced this with every single phone I've had that's been wireless charging.

It just shortens its life somehow. I thought I was crazy. It didn't make sense unless it does fancy shit with the crystals inside or it heats it badly

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 hours ago (4 children)

The longer I look at it the less I can identify what kind of cheese it is, so you may be on to something

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

It's a delicacy in the northern Midwest. Batter, cheese (can be curds proper or cheese cubes), a good deep fry.

It's like a heart attack and keeps you warm with every bite

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 hours ago (3 children)

I'm not sure I want to know what Québec considers a cheese curd now.

Proper cheese curds are a Wisconsin delicacy and his description is exactly correct

[–] [email protected] 39 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

I like to think that he forgets, keeps trying and then makes a new post about it

[–] [email protected] 41 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

You know, this guy somehow sounds more and more like an actual Nazi every day. I'm starting to think he might have actual racist views and desires that will really fuck things up.

(/s since I always forget it's not obvious, clearly a Nazi offspring has Nazi views)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

Trying to legitimize? I want you to come up with a better solution that involves less death since that seems to have set you off.

The personal attacks are a bit odd. Unwell and a nobody?

If that were truly the case, I assume you wouldn't have continued this conversation. You see some benefit in continuing to engage.

Or, you have a personal policy to always have the last say. Which means we could go on forever, and personally, that might be fun to try.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 hours ago

I was literally told this the other day.

My success isn't based off my expertise, but how confident I sound.

It didn't feel good to hear.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

You're hardly speaking, you're just saying I'm evil for offering up a terrible yet balanced solution.

And if you're not going to read my arguments I can tell you don't actually have anything to gain or lose in this conversation, you're merely here to stroke fire.

Maybe that's what I'm doin? Maybe I'm trying to infuriate you? Or maybe I'm trying to get your mind to stop being so emotional about this and realize that feelings are going to get in the way the whole time. Deescalating any of this requires calm.

And my solution would certainly calm things down there. Maybe not from Iranian allies or Israel allies, but in the area they would be.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 hours ago

I like the cut of your jib

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 hours ago (4 children)

Oh you mean the glass the West thing.

I guess I didn't even think of that as being a solution to the Israel problem because it just removes countries with their shit together. And the only real country that could glass the West is probably China given that Russia threatening nuclear consequences so often has clearly painted them as not having any that function.

If China did that, it wouldn't really be fair to the Chinese due to the massive amounts of IP and funds they rely on external to their country. Not to mention all the other companies that depend on globalization.

I mean if you think shits bad now wait until it's just countries where there is absolutely no voting, no education, and it's run by cults. I don't think that's very fair. Plus, you're talking billions of lives of one side of an issue rather than 10 million equally distributed between sides.

Getting people out of the way is precisely the problem. Netanyahou wants his opposition out of the way. To do that he intends to distract by getting Palestinians out of the way. Iran has some connection to that I don't understand still so they fund Hezbollah to get the IDF out of the way, which then Israel wants to get Lebanon out of the way to get to Hezbollah out of the way. At which point it becomes Iran and Israel trying to get eachother out of the way. If total nuclear annihilation was your solution, that seems far more fair than just the West.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 12 hours ago (6 children)

And I have yet to hear what you consider fair.

 

This is what I do for work I guess

 
 

It will still break them if you try it

 
 

I'm talking like one person brought in all the money for a decade, then a divorce happens. Some of it makes sense - a house with mortgage, one spouse buys the other out of the house. Which is great, but if one spouse doesn't have the income to take a loan out to buy the other, does that mean that the spouse who does have the income has the choice to buy out or sell?

Similarly, things like 401ks and pensions I imagine you can't just take out half the cash in them and give that to their spouse. Or does that have to be a loan for the amounts in those plans?

Is it debt all the way down for both?

 
 

Let me set the stage: Newly single dad of a young kid. After COVID-19 I haven't done much outside of my home and taking care of my kid. I work full time-remote, and between the kiddo and leaving room for a hobby or taking care of the house, it seems like the only other thing I have time for is sleep.

The thing I know is that this is likely an issue with my anxiety and anxious attachment. The conclusion we've arrived at in therapy is that I gotta meet people. I apparently forgot, or don't know how to do that. Where to meet people. It's not a big city, but 200k-300k people in the county.

Maybe I'm looking for something of a strategy more than anything.

edit: thank you guys, I really appreciate it!

 
 
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