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[–] [email protected] 119 points 1 year ago (16 children)

I don't know where else to go.

The best thing about reddit for me was an endless stream of information and news propped up by user discussion. I rarely just scrolled endlessly through posts; I loved delving into comments on posts which didn't even interest me at face value to see what I could learn from niche communities.

It was, hands down, the best, most information dense landscape I've ever seen and frankly I feel a little lost without it. I hope that some day, some where I can find something similar.

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[–] [email protected] 84 points 1 year ago (8 children)

I think the answers you will get from users who are on lemmy will tend to be positive 😁

[–] [email protected] 59 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Our voluntary survey shows that 95% of people who participated in it don't mind participating in surveys.

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[–] [email protected] 62 points 1 year ago (3 children)

This is my permanent go to. Community already seems great and I hope it gains more traction. The main difference with the change from Reddit is I've gone from lurker to trying to be more engaged and posting.

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[–] [email protected] 56 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It's no longer just a Reddit alternative for me. Lemmy is Lemmy, and I like it. I'm still waiting for the 3rd party apps of Kbin though.

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[–] [email protected] 56 points 1 year ago (3 children)

So far it replaced my casual Reddit browsing when I'm bored. But when I want to look at some specific stuff I still need to go to reddit but it's just to get some information and not really to engage with the community.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It seems the the majority agree with you on this hence the up votes but I'm just gonna come out of and say something cuz I'm trying to stop being a lurker. Agreed.

It's going to be a very slow progression for anything federated to take the lead with specific stuff. reddit just has the knowledge at this point.

Hopefully that knowledge will eventually carry over over to the fediverse. Untill then, I'm gonna need reddit in small doses.

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[–] [email protected] 43 points 1 year ago (5 children)

It feels like reddit from ten years ago, and has the critical mass to make it interesting to open and browse. I think it's a success.

I only use reddit now on revanced rif to visit a couple of communities that are too small to be worth replicating here yet

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[–] [email protected] 39 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Only if this place moves on from complaining about reddit and posts content. No one finds the "my ex was crazy" phase endearing.

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[–] [email protected] 39 points 1 year ago

1:1 complete replacement - been very happy with Lemmy and Fediverse so far

[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Like it so far, not looking for anything else.

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Lemmy is the only decent alternative I've seen, besides the other ActivityPub federators. There was literally nothing else besides Mastadon (I had heard of this before and considered it) and kbin (only know about this since I joined lemmy.) Lemmy had the right combination of features, and a cuter name, so it won the most of us (I believe that's a big part of the reason.)

Every other alternative to the big social media is too niche, and often dominated by a particular world view or specific community grievance. Lemmy picked up a broad sample of users that reddit just suddenly and indiscriminately cut off without a moment for second thoughts. We're not a monoculture the only thing we have in common is we used alternative apps for reddit and we were too stubborn to move to the official app. That gives us a lot of diversity in the community and an edge on passionate eccentricity.

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Unless something happens, I'm sticking with Lemmy. As for interface and everything, I liked kbin more initially, but I feel like Lemmy development is moving much faster, plus all the third-party development at the moment. As I've said in the past, I'm going where the people are. And right now, that's mostly Lemmy - and since it can federate with kbin, picking between the two is kind of a moot point ...at least for now.

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[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 year ago (15 children)

So far this seems like the one. I primarily browsed Reddit using Sync, and Lemmy is where Sync has decided to go.

If there's a really compelling app for Kbin, however, I might give that a try at some point.

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[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Im cautiously optimistic about Lemmy. Short / mid term I’ll be here as it provides probably 90+% of what I was getting out of Reddit. I’m not sure long term how it will work out but so far I have no reason to leave.

I’ve also noticed I just don’t interact with any of it like I used to with Reddit. I used to spend a lot of time just doom scrolling on Reddit. Now I get the highlights of the news, check the sports sun for updates, and then I’m back to the real world. I like that.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

In my opinion, the only viable way to go for social networks like this is to be decentralized and run by the people. Anyone who is jumping on one of the corporate run Reddit alternatives is just delaying the deadline a bit. Eventually, Profit motives will turn those to shit as well. To me, federated services are the future.

Also, because it’s slightly harder to use than normal sites, the boomer nazis haven’t overrun Lemmy yet, so currently it just feels really great.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Also, because it’s slightly harder to use than normal sites, the boomer nazis haven’t overrun Lemmy yet, so currently it just feels really great.

πŸ˜‚ This is so true... Being liberal I always second guess myself and I don't want this to be an echo chamber, I want my beliefs and ideas to be challenged, but Conservatives aren't arguing policy nuance... They are fucking trying to exterminate people and elect a sociopath...

So what do we do... I hope we get diverse discussion on here, while keeping the Nazis away.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago (4 children)

As someone who was lurking on Reddit every day, probably not to be honest. I know a lot of people are enjoying the smaller community, but to me it just feels... empty. The bigger instances are fine, but I was never interested in the popular subreddits like r/funny or r/memes. I used reddit for things like specific games, communities that are noticeably dead on Lemmy.

I'm using Lemmy more like an intermediary step between reddit and just quitting altogether.

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[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No doubts about it. With the decentralization it truly just feels like being on forums again. Just needs more content for nicher topics but that's slowly growing, i'm happy here away from the larger internet.

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 year ago

Well, true. I may have gotten here though Reddit. But now I'm taken aback by what's happening here.

I mean, the whole thing is open, FOSS developed, decentralized, being everywhere and at the same time nowhere? Call me crazy, but this in itself is awesome!

On top of that, I was greeted here by a community of communities where people are kind, helpful, full of beautiful and interesting insights.

So why would I be thinking of going somewhere else? I've posted more comments here in the past weeks than in the last ten years on Reddit. And I've done that because I'm genuinely excited with this setting.

So no, I'm not joining the herd moving to greener pastures. This field is green enough for me.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm here to stay. The more I get used to how it works, the more impressed I am with how much better the core concept is and how much that concept influences the quality of the stuff I see.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I've been wanting to move to lemmy for a while it just wasn't active enough so I stayed on reddit. Fuck reddit and fuck proprietary software

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago

Right now it is. It's still a bit empty compared to Reddit, but I see it's slowly getting traction.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm happy with Lemmy, except I'm honestly getting tired of the somewhat elitist attitude and fear/anger towards anything that isn't in the fediverse. I noticed it when I left Twitter for Mastodon too, and it's kind of getting old.

I'm not saying some of what's being said isn't justified, it's just not what I feel like seeing every time I open the app/site.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago (6 children)

I'm undecided at the moment.

I'm now mostly past the muscle memory of instantly opening Reddit any time I'm not actively busy.

Lemmy isn't ready to fill the hole that has left. But honestly as it stands I'm not sure that I want to fill that hole. It would probably be better for my mental health, concentration, social life and many other things if I could successfully leverage this moment to become a whole lot less of an online person.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes. With the added bonus of decentralization.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (7 children)

Until something better comes along, lemmy.world is the place.

wefwef (now Voyager), the Memmy app (iOS), and the "old.reddit" view (https://mlmym.org/lemmy.world/) make it REALLY easy to use Lemmy.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Lemmy is my new home.

It scratches the itch that needs scratches.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It already seems significantly better than reddit has been lately. I was just mentioning to a friend how it felt like 2010 reddit did.

The community is good, it scratches the same itch, think I'm here for a while.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Once I got Memmy it was done. It’s everything I wanted without all the extra bullshit.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago

Absolutely. It isn't all that much different than reddit once you get used to it.

[–] jflorez 17 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It took me a while to curate a list of interesting subreddits. I am doing the same thing with lemmy and since kbin is also part of the fediverse I don’t see the point of having a kbin account on top of lemmy+mastodon. I’m spending some time discovering what is around lemmy and all its instances so it will be unlikely that I’ll move somewhere else, unless lemmy collapses somehow

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

So far, so good.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

I’m here until the next inevitable decay due to corporate or self greed ruins this place too. The counter has officially begun.

Still better than any alternative at this point.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Seems fine now, just needs more people/content, and to settle down.

Some people were hesitant as they heard the creator of this place was some crazy Stalinist; what happened to that?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (4 children)

It turns out that when stuff is FOSS and not controlled but an individual or a corporation, their opinions don't actually matter all that much.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (4 children)

My current replacements for reddit are:

  1. A kbin account for serious-posting
  2. This Lemmy account for the shitposting (and for communities on lemmy.ml which blanket bans all kbin instances)
  3. Tildes.net for the extra-serious-posting
  4. (Eventually) an RSS reader
  5. Libreddit and a redirector extension for search results

I personally prefer to keep my shitposting from my serious-posting and I also wanted to see what kbin was like, so it kinda worked out well enough (aside from .ml)

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

Tbh i wasn't really sure at first. But now that I've built up a pretty good collection of subscriptions to various communities id say I'm totally on board. So far I've been very impressed so I'd like to stay.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

I think I'm seeing things settle down and seeing more actual content now. It was mostly posts about Reddit to start with.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago

I am not sure what other alternatives there are? I'm receptive to anything good. Right now this looks like it has promise, so I'll go for the ride.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Reddit used to be able to do two things. 1. Allow me to express myself and 2. Entertain. They really stopped entertaining me a long while ago. They also didn't engage me enough for me to want to express myself. I already had a foot out the door.

Point 1 is filled with Hacker News, Lemmy and tildes. They are all similar but different. With lemmy... you kind of take your shoes off and relax (respectfully). With HN and Tildes: you are the best version of yourself.

Point 2 is taken up by TikTok. I use TikTok on an older dedicated secondary tablet with a fake gmail account, no contacts. The tablet only does TikTok and nothing else in order to alleviate privacy issues, etc.

HN, Lemmy, tildes and TikTok provide an experience that far surpasses that of reddit.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

It's difficult to replace Reddit considering it was/is this combination of multiple communities wrapped in a neat little bow. But lacking an ease of access on mobile and blatant disregard for 3rd party apps is what has caused my own browsing on the site to drop considerably during my free time.

Hopefully as time goes on and with 3rd party apps under development, Lemmy can begin competing with Reddit since this is a genuinely fun site.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

Lemmy is the future!

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

I plan on staying here. It offers everything I expect from reddit: enough people in the topics that I bother looking into, a handful of silly or shitty memes, and posts (hopefully) remaining visible for a number of years.

Not everything I wanted moved to the fediverse, but I'm not going to check back on reddit

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

I'll stay as long as it doesn't become reddit and former reddit ppl stop trying to force it to be reddit.

This is frankly better than reddit was and if they don't come around to that they are gonna ruin it for me.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

discussed lemmy with a friend the other day, who agreed people need to stop nerding out over how it functions, and just let it do what people are wanting it to do, which is replace reddit.

not to mention, the people discussing it just act like how it functions is a common knowledge that just makes sense.

instances, β€œfederated”, β€œdefederated”, user in one spot can have the same name as a user in another spot. does lemmy interact with kbin, wtf is a kbin.

dont make your acct here, make it somewhere else?

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