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The golden years (startrek.website)
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[-] [email protected] 130 points 9 months ago

Dumb take.

I'm in my 30s and working an office job is way less stressful overall than school was. When I'm done with work, I can go home and stop thinking about it.

With school, you can never study "enough", so its always creeping in the back of your subconscious. And good grades alone don't cut it - you've also got to participate in extracurriculars and turn yourself into a trained monkey to write an "interesting enough" college essay. Oh and if you screw any of this up, your entire adult life could be ruined.

Diligent students have it way harder than office workers. Kids need our support and sympathy.

[-] [email protected] 32 points 9 months ago

I still have nightmares of getting to my locker in time and making it to class.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago

I'm glad it's not just me lol

[-] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

>20 years on and doing my a-levels still crops up in nightmares

[-] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

I still have nightmares where I've somehow just forgotten a big assignment or presentation, or sometimes that I even had a class in a given time slot.

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[-] [email protected] 8 points 9 months ago

I'm so glad extracurriculars aren't really a thing that anybody cares about in my country nor are college essays. School and being a teenager was stressful enough as it was.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

Yeah, I liked school for hanging up with friends or relatives... But actually going back to school full nostalgia? No fucking way.

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[-] [email protected] 42 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

First off, it's more like 7:30-3:30 not counting homework and projects after school, second: fuck you man.

[-] [email protected] 19 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I had to take the bus and it left at *7:00am so I was waking up around 6ish everyday. I was constantly tired and had trouble staying awake in school. Taking the bus back put me at arriving at 4pm home. It was awful tbh. I see grade school years, especially high school, as the worst years of my life followed closely by early adulthood in college.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

such a classic, and when you perform badly in school due to being chronically tired they just repeat that sleep is important, as if they're not the fucking reason you can't get enough sleep.

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[-] [email protected] 37 points 9 months ago

I hated every moment of school. It was miserable from start to finish, and I wouldn't go back if you paid me. I wish I would have thought to drop out at 16 and get my GED.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago

I failed school horrifically and the last year I had a decent attendance rate was 5th grade and the last year I attended at all was 9th grade. I was always so anxious and I was bullying, had a fear of failure, was extremely depressed and had likelihood ADHD (it's not diagnosed but everyone I know with ADHD has told me I probably have it, and I have just about every symptom of it).

I'm 18, working and its so much fucking nicer. Granted I have a super chill boss and a forgiving job all beit hard job and it's a million times better. I don't have any panic attacks before going to work and everyone's a mature adult, not petty or slightly psychopathic like a lot of teenagers.

Huge plus is when work is done it is fucking done, I don't need to stay up all night finishing shit for work too, or have crushing anxiety about upcoming assignments. I still cannot fathom how some prefer school over adult life, school made me want to blow my fucking brains out

[-] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago

Same. Being undiagnosed autistic is horrifying in high school. I was chronically depressed and suicidal and everyone avoided me like the plague because I was weird as fuck and had no social skills. I did drop out at 17, then delivered mail for a few years, then after I got diagnosed and put on proper meds went and got my diploma in adult education at 24, which was super chill. Ironically I decided to become a teacher, in part because I want to contribute to making school a little less horrifying to kids like I was. And the 7 years of delay ended up being a huge benefit, because I can stand in front 25 13 year-olds confidently at 28, but I could never have done that at 21.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Same but I'm not convinced community college would've been better.

[-] [email protected] 34 points 9 months ago

The bus picked me up at 6:30 AM and I had extracurriculars, so I didn't get home from the late bus until after 5:30 PM. I'd almost always have an hour or two of homework too, but usually I could get it done on the bus or during other classes. But not always.

Then there is the puberty and hormones, plus the depression from not being popular or good looking, which still affects me today.

[-] [email protected] 33 points 9 months ago

I heard this opinion many times and I couldn't disagree more. I hated school and I much prefer my adult, working life. In fact I feel like my life only gets better as time goes by.

Granted, I'm privileged to have a well paying job I actually enjoy, which probably makes a world of a difference.

[-] [email protected] 11 points 9 months ago

Fr, hated school so much. At least you get paid for work and there is substantially less drama and bs (though I guess this depends where you work at).

[-] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Mostly same. I was horribly depressed and anxious throughout school and had no friends...so I definitely wasn't seeing my friends every day. And when you get home you always had even more work to do.

Now, I get paid well, I love chatting with my coworkers every day, and I tend to enjoy what I do, even if it's monotonous or stresssful at times. And with my job, it's physically impossible to take work home with you.

I do miss having a gajillion days off like when I was a kid and I miss my mom making dinner for me and cleaning up after me lol. But for the most part, I don't think I'd want to go back. I did well in school and wasn't bullied or anything, but those times were still really rough mentally.

[-] [email protected] 29 points 9 months ago

Fuck that. Give me 9-5 any day over going back to being stuck in an uncomfortable metal desk+chair contraption all day and then have to do hours of filler homework after. Hauling around books I may or may not ever even open in class. Pushing through rush hour traffic in the hallways between classes. Gym class? WTF no. Then take massive tests like our lives depend on it.

I'm cool, no thanks.

[-] [email protected] 25 points 9 months ago

Doing nothing productive with your life, everything revolves around social drama, getting permission to take a shit...

I enjoyed my time at school. But you've got to ask yourself, if the best time of your life was at school that means you've made bad decisions, so what did it prepare you for really? School failed you.

The truth is that school fails all of us.

[-] [email protected] 24 points 9 months ago

Highschool was way tougher when it came to time management tbh. Even in college I was envious of normal 9-5 jobs. With those, holidays, weekends, and evenings you actually get to shut off. In school there was just constant assignments/stress.

[-] [email protected] 21 points 9 months ago

Tell me you peaked in high school without telling me you peaked in high school.

[-] ThrowawayPermanente 20 points 9 months ago

Hard disagree. School was a nightmare.

[-] [email protected] 15 points 9 months ago

Idk i really liked high school, all the fun and minimal responsibilities. I wasn't even popular but had a great friend group. Classes were fun, most teachers were cool. Would I go back? Hell nah. I love my life now at 35 even more.

[-] [email protected] 15 points 9 months ago

Pay could have been better

[-] [email protected] 13 points 9 months ago

I think it has more to do with less responsibilities and the freedom children have.

Then we become just another cog in the machine.


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[-] [email protected] 11 points 9 months ago

Nah, the hours were fewer but during those hours I had a lot less freedom to the point of having to ask just to go to the bathroom. Plus having to do homework and having strict deadlines (turns out missing deadlines in office work isn't as big of a deal as it is in school). Now if we're talking about university/college, then yeah, those years were great, provided you didn't have to work many hours on the side. I had a part-time job, but things were light enough that those years were leisurely and lovely, certainly better than the grind now.

[-] [email protected] 11 points 9 months ago

True but learning is hard work.

And fuck, I hated homework.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Learning is great when it's something you want to do. I went back 10 years after graduating to study something I was interested in and it was fucking awesome.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago

Well, that is, if you had friends in school, and weren't being bullied.

Also, no worries, but also no money.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 9 months ago

Abled and neurotypical take lol

[-] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

i have autism and jefus sucking christ school has to be part of my childhood trauma, i remember in the early grades they forced us to be outside during breaks and i had 0 friends so that meant every single FUCKING day was just spent in abject misery.

i straight up spent many breaks just standing in a corner listening to the same few songs i had on my shitty phone, thinking back on it is god damn depressing and makes me feel like all the adults around me should be put in jail.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

Ikr, also special education tends to be dehumanizing and have major issues with abuse

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[-] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago

Only 6 weeks off for summer? We were off almost 3 months every summer. (Usually about June 2-3ish and the next year started the last week of August.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago

Yeah idk what they're on about, my summer breaks went from mid-May through Mid-August. 6 weeks sounds rough

[-] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

The UK has alternating 1 or 2 week school holidays every 6-8 weeks throughout the year as well as the 6 weeks during summer and also bank holidays occasionally.

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[-] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago

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[-] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago

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[-] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I loved school man, and not just in retrospect, I can't believe I'm completely alone with that based on the comment section. And I wasn't even one of the "cool kids" or anything. I went to a high school that some would consider "elite" (though that description makes me cringe), and sure, there were some stressful times, but generally as long as you had realistic expectations and didn't aim to ace everything, it was pretty chill. My day began around 7:30 I think and was free after about 2pm, and usually I spent maybe like half an hour extra studying for the next day, plus a bit in the weekends, and then I could do whatever, it was such a bliss. And I loved learning, I just loved that I got to study such diverse topics, and you know what man, I love knowing that the mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell. Oh and the summer breaks were also great, some of the best times of my life. I'd take school over the sheer amount of bullshit you have to deal with as an adult any day.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

Y’all don’t get Easter holidays?

[-] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

I'm in college RN, taking three classes, and literally just last week i was working so much to keep up with all the classes homework I started from 9am to 10pm with no breaks (online) with only the 5 min eating break every so often. If it was a 9-5 I would have been done and have time to spare for other crap. Fuck this idolizing the past "9-5 is evil" bullshit.

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