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[–] captain_aggravated 26 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Do NOT stop to talk in doorways.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago

Or at the bottom of escalators.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Elevator Etiquette: Let people exit before you enter. That way you have more room to enter. This applies to all things, not just elevators.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Trains, buses, gangbangs...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

But how else are you going to turn a gang bang into a train?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

HUMAN Centipede

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

Give LOTS of space when passing a bike in your car.

Give EVEN MORE when passing a horse.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 6 days ago

Since the majority of people in the world are idiots, and management tends to collect them at a higher rate than other roles, you will generally be rewarded more for how you make others feel than the amount or quality of your work. A person with a 10 in charisma and 4 int gets farther than the person with a 10 int and a 7 in charisma most of the time. Focus on learning better people skills. If you find a place where your work is recognized you should cherish it.

Also in the US the left lane is for passing the right lanes.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Do not start or continue a phone conversation when going to the bathroom - public or private restroom but especially in public bathrooms.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago

I've seen people facetiming in the men's room.

[–] MrsDoyle 2 points 6 days ago

About ten years ago I was talking to one of my sisters on the phone. She was in NZ, I'm in the UK, so it wasn't an everyday thing. Evening for me, morning for her. So we're chatting away and suddenly there's a weird noise, like interference on the line. I remarked on it - and it turned out it was her PEEING. She somehow thought I wouldn't hear? Bloody hell.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

Even if you have a green light at the crossrowds you shouldn't drive if you can see that you have no way of exiting the crossroads and would block others e.g. there is a traffic jam on the road you want to drive into.

(at least in Poland)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

And then you get an angry person behind you honking their horn and the moment they can, they'll pass you, flip you off, almost cause 2 accidents and break check you.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

It’s called impeding traffic in the US and it’s illegal. Some places are super strict and even having your bumper in their intersection can get you in trouble. I wish more people took your advice or at least more places enforced the law

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago

I wish more people were aware of it and not simply thought "green means go".

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago

Reading the answers to this questions, I'd say "Not understanding the meaning of most people".

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

One could write a book on unspoken rules for tipping in the US. Do you tip on takeout? Do you tip baristas? Does it depend on the beverage? Do you tip if you sit down but bus your own table? What's considered a good tip (and this is situation-dependent)? The only thing I can tell is if you're worried about something happening to you, then 20% of the price is generally a safe amount.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 days ago

Easy highly controversial fix : dont tip and start demanding that people are paid a living wage

[–] [email protected] 131 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

Don't make phone calls on speaker when in public. Not even if you hold it up to your ear.

[–] [email protected] 52 points 1 week ago (3 children)

People that do this are inviting you to join the call. Announce yourself and ask what the caller is wearing.

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[–] [email protected] 100 points 1 week ago (5 children)

If you're boarding a train or bus let people exit first instead of squeezing your fat ass past everyone to get a good seat

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[–] [email protected] 88 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (11 children)

Here's a weird one:

Don't offer advice unless its something you have some experience with.

Googling someone's issues and giving them a boilerplate answer from the first thing you find isn't helpful and can actually be a hinderance more than anything.

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[–] [email protected] 71 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Don't stop in doorways when walking through public places.

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[–] agamemnonymous 70 points 1 week ago (5 children)

So many of these are "Don't create obstacles or bottlenecks".

Return your cart, zipper merge, wait for people to get off before you get on, don't block doorways.

Clearly, the truest unspoken rule is "Get out of the way!"

[–] MrsDoyle 1 points 6 days ago

Zipper merge done properly is amazingly efficient.

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[–] [email protected] 65 points 1 week ago (24 children)

Put your cart back when you're done shopping.

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[–] [email protected] 59 points 1 week ago (9 children)

When it’s close to closing time, get out of the store. If you have items you want to buy, leave yourself enough time to check out before the store closes. If you’re bringing a full cart to the register 30 seconds before closing time, you’re an asshole.

The employees have probably been there for 7+ hours, and still have to clean, restock, etc. They don’t want to be there for one second longer than necessary. Don’t be the reason they get home even later than usual.

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[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Let the people out of the elevator that are trying to get out of the elevator before you attempt getting in.

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[–] [email protected] 39 points 1 week ago

Be aware of your surroundings. This is not just a safety thing for yourself, but a courtesy thing for other people.

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