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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

"Let go, or be dragged."

It's simple, yet so meaningful.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What is better: to be born good, or to overcome your evil nature through great effort?

[–] IrateAnteater 4 points 1 month ago

Does it even matter if you wind up being a good person either way?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

Not my circus, not my monkeys.

Used this against my controlling mother, who liked to lay BS at my feet and make me think it was my responsibility to fix. When it was HER that caused the whole thing. The look on her face when I hit her with that phrase and just turned around and left was priceless.

There a LOT of things that are just flat not your problem, even if someone else tries to make it yours.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

What you do when you don't have to, makes you who you are.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Choose your rut carefully.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

I was going to post something cheeky like “Fuck here we go again”, noped out, pressed backspace and then this…

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Making fun of the weak (poor, minorities, etc) is easy because they can't fight back, that's why the best comedy is the one that upsets the powerful.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

It a saying from Ubuntu (the philosophy not the operating system) “Umuntu ngumuntu ngabantu” in English it’s “I am because you are” It’s a simple and concrete way of saying how we’re not judged by how we treat others but we are who we are through our interactions with others.

Honestly I’ve only browsed through a bit of philosophy and I’m sure I missing a heap but it really struck me.

[–] evulhotdog 5 points 1 month ago

Seek to understand, then be understood.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

"Freedom is not a goal, but a tool".

-Reiraku (Downfall) By Inio Asano

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

"Compound interest is the eighth wonder of the world. He who understands it, earns it; he who doesn't, pays it."

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Yes I believe Jesus referred to it as usury in the Bible.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Never do anything you would be afraid to explain to the paramedics.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

The world needs fewer cynics and more skeptics.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Experience is a lantern lightning only it's carrier

[–] buffysummers 4 points 1 month ago

Yes, for those of us who manage somehow to cope with our mortality. The very meaninglessness of life forces man to create his own meaning. Children, of course, begin life with an untarnished sense of wonder, a capacity to experience total joy at something as simple as the greenness of a leaf; but as they grow older, the awareness of death and decay begins to impinge on their consciousness and subtly erode their joie de vivre, their idealism—and their assumption of immortality. As a child matures, he sees death and pain everywhere about him, and begins to lose faith in faith and in the ultimate goodness of man. But if he’s reasonably strong—and lucky—he can emerge from this twilight of the soul into a rebirth of life’s élan. Both because of and in spite of his awareness of the meaninglessness of life, he can forge a fresh sense of purpose and affirmation. He may not recapture the same pure sense of wonder he was born with, but he can shape something far more enduring and sustaining. The most terrifying fact about the universe is not that it is hostile but that it is indifferent; but if we can come to terms with this indifference and accept the challenges of life within the boundaries of death—however mutable man may be able to make them—our existence as a species can have genuine meaning and fulfillment. However vast the darkness, we must supply our own light.

--Stanley Kubrick, responding to the question "If life is so purposeless, do you feel that it’s worth living?" in a 1968 Playboy interview.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

"Assume that everyone else just wants to be happy too"

  • I’ve forgotten who said or wrote this
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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

If it takes only two minutes, do it right away.

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