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[–] [email protected] 65 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 83 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Money can be exchanged for goods and services

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Money is a thing that people agree has value and therefore can be traded for other things of value

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[–] Lighttrails 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 52 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Wool socks if it's winter and/or you live in a cold climate.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I wouldn't even consider that a luxury item. In cold climates, warm socks are required.

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[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 week ago (3 children)

A 10-foot USB cable. Most people use whatever's packed in with their electronics, and it's pretty rare to get anything longer than 6 feet. Having the extra length is really nice in many situations.

It's also one of my go-to inexpensive gifts or part of a care package for someone in the hospital. The extra length there is often the difference between being able to use a device while it's charging or not.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 week ago (2 children)

They're rare because 10 feet is too long for a reliable USB data transmission. But yes good for charging.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

Especially if it's braided and has extra large and durable connector thingies so it won't hard bend.

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[–] [email protected] 39 points 1 week ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 week ago (1 children)

If you use your phone a lot (or if your battery is old and you haven't replaced it), a power bank is very useful.

A reputable powerbank (such as those from Anker) cost just under $20 USD for 10,000 MAH

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's worth it for other people too, the fun putting a "W" sticker in front of the logo is endlessly entertaining.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 week ago (2 children)

A cheap over shoulder satchel, it's like having a extra pocket always available

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

There are a few brands that make decent backpacks/satchels in the 10L - 20L size, within that price range. They're very helpful

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Fluffy stuffed animal. If I didn't have a couple stuffed kitties to hug I probably would have killed myself already. Nice to have something to pretend loves you

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 week ago (2 children)

A beard trimmer. Shaving sucks and irritates my skin, plus I look like a baby without facial hair. But that's only one benefit.

I have been using a beard trimmer to cut my own hair for the last 10 years which has saved me probably $2000 worth of haircuts (estimating a $25 haircut + tip every 2 months). Not to mention saving about 1 hour waiting at the barber every time. I only messed up once and had to do a buzz cut.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago (5 children)

So you just buzz cut your entire hair essentially? I did that once and looked like a serial rapist

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

Don't get a beard trimmer and also use it on your hair; get a hair trimmer and also use it on your beard. Specifically, get the kind that comes with an assortment of combs up to 1" (and then maybe even buy the 1-1/4" and 1-1/2" combs that are sold separately, too).

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

Only of you do it wrong, or you want to look like a serial rapist.

If you have a simple cut/style all it takes is a little practice to DIY.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Mini Swiss army knife. I don't know how to live life without this on my keychain

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 week ago (14 children)

Converting $20 to local currency, I'd probably go with this:

This is so-called "Liubao Tea", a kissing cousin to pu'er tea. I did a review of my first batch(es) and it has rapidly (literally with one round of brews) reached the top of my circulation in teas.

The depicted tea is one aged from 1991 (the one I reviewed was tea stems from 2003) and is of one of the higher grades. A 100g package will set you back about $15 or so at today's exchange rate. 100g is about 15-20 servings, and each serving can be brewed multiple times (even my tea stems can be brewed four times without loss of flavour), so it's quite the bargain.

Save it for a time when you really need something warm, rich, and comforting. It will last forever as long as you store it in a cool, dry, dark space. And personally I think it's a bargain at 15 bucks.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Pet jumping spider.

Honestly 10 star pet. They eat a small bug every other day or so. They look adorable. They will recognize and react to you, and you can even train them to accept handling. They come in a wide variety of colors.

Downsides are that you'll probably end up getting more than one (do NOT co-hab them!), or that they only live for 1-3 years. If you enjoy having the spider though, you can look into other arthropods like tarantulas, or vinegaroons (which look scary, but are harmless and have very sweet dispositions).

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Do you just... grab one off the street?

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 week ago

$20 total or per day? If total, then a dumb stylus for my phone. If per day, then junk food. As an American my retirement plan is to die from heart disease.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Not luxury, but I keep a small AAA flashlight with me nearly all the time.

Easier to handle and faster to use than a phone light. Also doesn't use phone battery. I clip it on my hat if I need both hands like taking out the trash.

I have an Olight i3T but I would try out the i3T 2. More lumens and better battery efficency.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

A small USB-C hub. It has a USB-C out on one end then HDMI, 2 USB-A ports and another USB-C in on the other. I use it as my travel dock for my switch and steam deck, I've used it as a USB A to C converter, and I'll use it to test inputs on various TVs. I've gotten so much more mileage out of this $15 Amazon purchase than I ever would have expected

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

1L water bottle, especially if it’s insulated. Keeps your drink cool, but also makes it so I don’t have to get up to get more drinks when I run out.

We had some in a car during a trip to Wonderland during the summer. A Gatorade bottle was disgustingly hot while the insulated bottles still had ice in them.

5/7 would recommend

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

A bamboo back scratching stick. I bought dozens back when Pier 1 existed and sold them for 75¢. Most are still around.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

A high quality mechanical pencil that takes girthy lead. I use a staedtler 925 2mm and it's absolutely wonderful for taking notes and writing and has served me through high school, college, and work. It writes similar to a regular wood pencil but sharpening is optional

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Platinum Preppy fountain pen. Often, it's less than 10$

No one needs a fountain pen to write, but writing with a fountain pen is a unique experience. Alas, many fountain pens will cost a little fortune and other will cost a large fortune (what about a 40k$ one?). The Preppy is an exception. It's not the best fountain pen but it's very decent, it's even incredibly good considering its price. For slightly more 25-30$, I would also suggest the Lamy Safari.

Beside that, I can't think of many luxury items under 20. I mean, I can think of a few useful luxury things but they cost more than 20.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm surprised I did not think of mentioning it next to the Preppy fountain pen I already mentioned but a reading lamp! This one is 15-18€ clip-on. It's USB-C (I would prefer standard batteries if there was a model so it doesn't got to waste one the battery is dead). It's lightweight and the brightness (as well as its temp) can be adjusted.

Worth every single cent, imho. I find it so useful that I have purchased two, just in case I need to recharge one.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I carry an arch lighter everywhere. It cost me $15 but saves me a ton in lighter fuel, and you'd be surprised by the number of every day situations that a controlled burst of plasma solves. Opening packages, lighting candles, kills mosquitos in the dark, and it's a fantastic taking piece as mine slots into a zippo.

Only downside is I can't use my zippo for light on the off chance I get trapped in a dark tunnel.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

arch lighter

sudo pacman -S lighter
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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Zippo sucks imo because the gas evaporates so quick

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Strap wrenches as jar openers, got a two-pack years ago (large and small) for less than $20 and end up using one every couple of weeks

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

Silk pillow case. Good for skin and hair.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Freshly roasted coffee beans. A bag sets me back maybe $13 or so and gets me approximately 10 cups. Not what I would call outrageously expensive but I enjoy it a whole lot

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (3 children)

The Lady we got ours from isn't showing up at the farmer's marker anymore, but for well under $20, you can make your own corn pillow

This winter's been bad for deep freezes and 4 minutes in the microwave will keep my corn pillow hot for an hour or more.

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