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Japan's National Consumer Affairs Center on Wednesday suggested citizens start "digital end of life planning" and offered tips on how to do it. The Center's somewhat maudlin advice is motivated by recent incidents in which citizens struggled to cancel subscriptions their loved ones signed up for before their demise, because they didn't know their usernames or passwords. The resulting "digital legacy" can be unpleasant to resolve, the agency warns, so suggested four steps to simplify ensure our digital legacies aren't complicated:

  • Ensuring family members can unlock your smartphone or computer in case of emergency;
  • Maintain a list of your subscriptions, user IDs and passwords;
  • Consider putting those details in a document intended to be made available when your life ends;
  • Use a service that allows you to designate someone to have access to your smartphone and other accounts once your time on Earth ends.

The Center suggests now is the time for it to make this suggestion because it is aware of struggles to discover and resolve ongoing expenses after death. With smartphones ubiquitous, the org fears more people will find themselves unable to resolve their loved ones' digital affairs -- and powerless to stop their credit cards being charged for services the departed cannot consume.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

This is a symptom of the absolutely insane way digital payments work.

You give a company your card details and they're able to charge whatever they want, whenever they want, by default. That's like paying at a restaurant by handing the waiter your entire wallet and telling them to take out the cost of the meal.

[–] otp 6 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

That's like paying at a restaurant by handing the waiter your entire wallet and telling them to take out the cost of the meal.

Isn't that basically how it works in the US?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 hours ago

Yes, yes it is. The only deterrent really is the will of the employee to commit fraud and/or a customer noticing. I've had to handle coworkers in the past writing in tips on blank tip lines on the reciepts that the customer signed.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

Everything made by sufficiently big orgs works like this.

They care about ability to be do everything by themselves and easily.

They don't care about sanity of the system for the user, because there are crowds of users, what are they going to do, barter?

And the worst part is where the biggest org of all these, the government, makes requirements that can only be fulfilled by big orgs.

You can't win playing by the rules your opponent sets. EDIT: Unless they do some sort of Ulysses' pact, but they won't.

[–] [email protected] 96 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Password manager with a delegated access structure is the way to go. If my sister (who I have delegated to) requests access, provides a death certificate,and waits some cool-off period, she gets access to the portions of my password vault I designate. I will grant her access to my financials upon death, but not social media and private stuff.

Versus writing it down and giving it to a lawyer who probably has the same opsec as their 1920s counterpart.

[–] Imgonnatrythis 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Also are you going to update if every three months when you change your passwords? Writing it down gives only a false sense of legacy access that will likely never end up working

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (3 children)

Let’s be realistic here. People ain’t changing their passwords every month, 3 months, even yearly.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

It's not recommened to do anyway. So why bother if it's random generated?

[–] Imgonnatrythis 1 points 3 hours ago

A lot of employers require this and people sync up their other passwords or if you're like me, you average a change for many of your passwords every 6months or so simply because you are forced to change since you can't remember the damn thing.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago

Or ever. As recommended by NIST.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Can you please let us know what password manager does what you said?

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Bitwarden has this, you can set your next-of-kin and they'll be able to get access. (They have to wait like 2 weeks or so and I imagine all sorts of alarm bells will go off if they try this while you're alive). Might be a premium only feature though idk.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Wait how does that work? I thought Bitwarden couldn't access your passwords, how could they grant a third party access to your passwords without your master password?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 hours ago

my understanding is:

  1. the emergency contact sends their public key to the owner of the vault
  2. the owner encrypts the key for the vault using said public key and stores the result on bitwarden's servers
  3. the emergency contact can now request the decryption key from bitwarden, which they will receive either if the vault owner manually approves the request or if the request is not rejected within a certain amount of time
  4. the emergency contact can then decrypt the stored vault key using their private key, and use that to access the vault

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago

It is premium only to configure, but doesn't require premium to execute once configured.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

The BitWarden Emergency Access feature is premium-only to setup. And it doesn't have the death certificate/identity verification piece to it, which I prefer not having anyway.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

So it's not actually one I would recommend. It's provided as an employee benefit through my company, and I don't particularly like my company having any relation to it at all.l and I don't like the death certificate portion.

I'm moving back to BitWarden, which has a similar feature. It's Emergency Access, in which your delegated person requests emergency access, there is a wait period where you would be getting emails or whatever notifying you of the access request, and if you don't respond within the defined time period, access is granted.

So it removes the identification / death certificate portion, which I greatly prefer. My BW vault ties to an email address that I use only for the password manager, not my legal name or Social Security number, so I'm compartmentalizing pieces of identifying information.

[–] ironhydroxide 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You can self host Vaultwarden, which is essentially self managed Bitwarden.

And the feature can be setup fairly easily.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Okay, but if you’re self hosting it, then die, and the hosting has an issue during that time? You’re SOL.

Don’t try to self host things like a dead man switch.

[–] ironhydroxide 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The likelihood that I die, and my loved ones decide to just turn off the server while knowing it's where the Vaultwarden software lives, before they get access to said Vaultwarden, is very very slim.

Self host whatever you want. Even Deadman switches.

The key is informing your loved ones the requirements for the switch. Just like if they don't know to request access in other Deadman switches.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

And if the hard drive goes out?

Cmon, you can’t tell me you’re comfortable with a 2 week “anything could happen” period where all that information could just disappear forever.

[–] ironhydroxide 1 points 1 day ago

I can definitely tell you I'm comfortable with that.

If family doesn't know I'm dead in 3 days, they ain't family.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Fuck all that. My shit will erase itself if i don’t check in. The family can eat a bag of dicks if they want my data.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

This. Why would anyone want their private conversations, out there? Don't put your password in you will. Put a dead man switch on your PC.

If it is to close down a social media account they can contact the company directly.

If it is to take out money, they can contact the bank directly.

If it is to inform contacts, they can live without knowing.

If it is to cancel subscriptions, you're going to have to send letters, wait in a phone call for hours, and cancel the credit card either way because of scummy cancellation practices.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Or just give them the passwords to control some things, but not all?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

I can see why people would feel this way, but I would absolutely want a trusted family member that I care about to have access to my data so they could create some sort of digital family memorial of my life if they so choose, for a funeral or just to have in general. I'd personally want family to have easy access to my data so they could easily find any memories they wanna share.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Eh The things that actually matter, like phone, banks and utilities, and just about everything else, only require you tell them of the death. They might want proof such as a death certificate, but that's normal.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The article mentions things like auto-payment subscription services which can definitely be a pain to deal with (even while you're alive lol). Depending on how the payments are setup, it can be as easy as having the bank cancel the debit/credit card. For direct debit from checking accounts, though, it's often a lot more complex to get stop payments on those (been there, unfortunately).

So leaving your account details (in a password manager, text file, notebook, etc) has some tangible benefits. At the very least, it makes it easier on your survivors to handle your affairs.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

Strangely, I used to work for a bank in their "bereavement services" department; that is, the department that dealt with dead people's accounts.

If anyone notified us of a death of an account holder, and provided any proof (death certificate, coroner's report, police letter), the first thing we'd do is freeze the account. All payments out stopped, all cards cancelled, all withdrawals blocked. This was a legal requirement, because once somebody dies their money becomes the legal property of their "estate", and it's unlawful for anyone to remove money from the estate without following proper process.

There's no need to stop each payment individually. In fact, the bank really doesn't want you logging in to their online bank using the deceased's credentials and messing around with things for the same reason; unless you're following proper procedures, it's not yours to mess with.

Possibly it's different in different jurisdictions, of course.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Oh don't get me wrong, i think it's a good idea. Just be mindful that financial companies (for example) don't think you're in the account fraudulently. Tell them the person is deceased and then provide the account info you have.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Well, yeah, for banks and "official" services like that. Otherwise, it's fraud and you've got a whole new set of issues to deal with.

[–] iAmTheTot 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

That's just good advice. Personally, I use a password manager.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

Yeah. The only complicating factor is there are still some very stupid services that force periodic password changes (or at least I still have to deal with such stupid services with terrible password policies).