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[–] [email protected] 125 points 7 months ago (5 children)

2008 was the beginning of the recession, and in many ways things never really recovered. Cost of college never went down. Housing remains unattainable for most young people. And the job market is becoming more exploitative than ever.

Financial uncertainty creates anxiety. People with too much anxiety don't have the time or energy for relationships and family. As it happens, countries where this is felt even more, like Korea and Japan, have it far worse.

[–] [email protected] 56 points 7 months ago (4 children)

And it's a hard sell to get a girl at a bar/club to come back to your mom's house.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago (1 children)

by that logic, nobody would have sex while in high school. And japan would have basically no virgins, since they have the love hotels.

btw, america needs those. very covenient, and with the housing prices and everyone living with their parents, very much in demand

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago (3 children)

I like the Bourne Ultimatum theory better. We peaked there and will never achieve that high again!

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[–] [email protected] 76 points 7 months ago (3 children)

zero female sex partners

Well that's a meaningless study then

[–] [email protected] 43 points 7 months ago

Meaningful if you're looking for predictors on birth rates, I suppose. Usually I see studies like this used to explain why populations start to decline.

[–] VirtualOdour 7 points 7 months ago

Not every study has to be about everything, there's plenty of interesting things this tells us.

Lots of follow up studies too, are gen z women the same or do they all go for older guys or the same guy? Is this trend tied with sexual identity, how do men feel about it, do porn habits correlate, how does it split demographically and economically....

Doing a study on all these factors would be huge and expensive, getting a good data point to inform future study design is a vital step.

But yeah look up the paper I bet they asked more than one question and have a methodology based on sound principles trying to increase understanding of a complex subject.

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[–] [email protected] 63 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (3 children)

"Young male virgins" equals "men under age 30 who report zero female sex partners since they turned 18"?

Good thing no male has sex before 18 or with anyone who isn't female.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

It's confirmed.

The Bourne Ultimatum turned men gay.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Right, like what's the point in excluding this data? I guess it's probably safe to assume if you had sex under 18 you probably have had sex after 18 but still odd that it's like that.

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[–] [email protected] 50 points 7 months ago (7 children)

That’s when social media started earnestly taking a foothold. I am guessing maybe this has to do with depressed females (there are studies which indicate social media use affects females more and also depresses them). Depressed females likely have different preferences and standards than those who are not, perhaps. If you don’t like yourself, you’re unlikely to pursue and welcome relationships.

Alternatively, that was the time of the Great Recession. Perhaps some young adults in general are too economically stressed to do normal activities?

[–] [email protected] 26 points 7 months ago (4 children)

ugh i hate the word "females". why not just say "women"

[–] [email protected] 24 points 7 months ago

Because the study is clearly talking about goats. You only use the word "women" when you're talking about humans.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 7 months ago (1 children)

In the context of this discussion, the chart title is "young male virginity on the rise", so it doesn't seem too far off the mark.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Yeah male virginity. Male is an adjective in this case.

Male or especially Female as a noun, has a very weird ring to it. Sounds kinda disrespectful, as said above, like your talk about cattle…

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 7 months ago (2 children)

This is also around the time smartphones came out. Wait, were the boomers right?

[–] [email protected] 20 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Pornhub was launched on 25 May 2007. Just saying...

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago

Well broken clock, etc. etc.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 7 months ago

Also, social media is a major contributor to the isolation epidemic going on, as is the economic situation and the work culture of countries like the US.

So what I'm saying is, you're probably right on all accounts.

I saw a great video once that went into how the economic situation is largely responsible for the cultural shift from "adult" as a thing you are to "adulting" - a thing you do. That from Millenials onwards, generations don't feel economically secure enough to partake in traditional cultural norms of middle-class adulthood. Things like buying a house and popping out 2.5 kids.

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[–] [email protected] 36 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

In 2008 Sasha Grey won Performer of the Year award.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

I am not going to figure out/imagine how many years ago was that, nope, no way, I know better.

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[–] [email protected] 31 points 7 months ago (4 children)

Housing crash fucked everyone for generations.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 7 months ago

Mass adoption of cellphones, social media, streaming services and the destruction of third spaces. Endless entertainment, decreased socialization.

People have been fucking while living with their parents for most of humanity. That's not the problem, at least in terms of first experiences.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 7 months ago (1 children)

When most people have to worry about their rent & food everyday of their life while working for ludicrous amounts of time every week, having a family or relationships in general just look like more expenses for the individual. It's not an issue only men face either.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Also the year Persona 4 came out.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 7 months ago

Emphasis on "female".

[–] [email protected] 17 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

men under 30 who report zero female sex partners since turning 18

Okay, but what about male partners?

Also, can we clarify whether we're defining "sex" as "sexual contact" versus "penial vaginal intercourse"? Because I think ex-President Clinton is still a virgin under the second definition.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 7 months ago

I'm pretty sure ex-President Clinton has a daughter who looks very similar to him.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 7 months ago

Jesus Christ that's Jason Bourne !

[–] [email protected] 13 points 7 months ago (1 children)

How would that make them virgins? They could e8tger be gay, 9r have had sex before being 18.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 7 months ago

If you don't fuck for 12 years, your virginity grows back.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 7 months ago

I mean, I guess millennials were right in the middle period between having a healthy sex life prior to 18 and then various life clusterfucks hit the generation. I can only assume ppl gave up, secluded, moisturised, in their lane, flourishing in their shituation as best they can.

[–] aBundleOfFerrets 11 points 7 months ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 11 points 7 months ago (6 children)

See that peak a little while after 1989?

I lost my virginity in 1993.

😎

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Ok, now overlay young men under 30 who are into Ben Shapiro and Andrew Tate...

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I bet young people today are more honest.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago (1 children)

So Jason Bourne turned everyone gay?

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago (1 children)

What if you're 38? Asking for a friend.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 7 months ago

If your friend can hold it for 2 more years then they can get a movie made about them.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago

Looks like I'm finally better than the majority at something!

sniffle

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago

Fuck Putin. Wait, not THAT.

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