Who out here getting three girlfriend ๐ญ
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Who the fuck has time for three girlfriends?
Nobody, which is why poly is exclusively for people with a scheduling kink.
But yeah, I've never met a poly person who would bring three of their partners to a single event and introduce them all as their girlfriends. In fact, I don't think I've ever met a poly who calls their partners "girlfriend".
I've allowed my partner to refer to me as girlfriend to make discussion with others easier. I don't love it, it doesn't sound like a longterm adult relationship, but I recognize it's easier to say "my wife and my girlfriend".
and both of us go to family Christmas, though not everyone needs to know relationship status.
... you're absolutely right about the scheduling thing though.
I've allowed my partner to refer to me as girlfriend to make discussion with others easier.
That's pretty understandable and reasonable, but something tells me bringing another girlfriend to the same party would probably make the whole point a little moot.
Something about the post reads as "I'm only poly to upset my parents", and that's not typically what I see when interacting with the community. All the successful poly relationships I've seen have taken a ton of work and communication for it to function, and tend to be more mature than let's go upset my partners parents.
I was in a poly relationship. I called my girlfriend "girlfriend" and she called me her "boyfriend," and she also called her other boyfriend "boyfriend" and he called her "girlfriend."
It was a great, genuinely healthy relationship, and Kyle was an excellent dude who always treated our girlfriend excellently
Can I acquire a scheduling kink?
It depends... when are you available?
Just wait till they unionize
Late 20s it's kind of doable, at least for awhile. But usually they don't know each other, lol.
Dude is a hentai main character
Poly lesbian
They gotta leave some for us ๐ซ
Well, the nice thing about poly is that.. they do! As you can still date the same people they're dating!
A broke ass prince from UAE.
Please elaborate. How do you acquire these women?
Step 1: be a girl
Ok I shaved my beard. Now what?
Ahahahahahah you bastards made me laugh so hard... Thank you all. May your day be very nice to you all.
dm me for some estrogen pills
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yes please
Mhh maybe once I ruled out other shape shifting options
Be the change you want to see in the girl
I had three girlfriends for a while in my late twenties in that I was the guy they hooked up with when their primaries were out and they were feeling lonely / jealous. Not a great gig, as I was getting laid way less than I would have liked.
Curiously, my flat-mate's boyfriend, who was getting plenty, was envious of my poly adventures, maybe imaging more of a harem lifestyle than I actually had.
PS: Only in my late forties did I ever become comfortable letting my parents get news about my love life, by which time it had stabilized.
me but with boys :3
me but with nobody ฦ:
Suuuuure it happened
It's not unusual if you're poly
Faaair, but that seems more than a little rare lol
i mean, i acknowledge I'm still young and all my relationships are long distance, but like, i have 5 gfs, and like, my parents are actually hella accepting
Bottom shelf anime, top shelf meme
The real question is how do you pull 3 girls at the same time?
The use of "three of my girlfriends," instead of something like "my three girlfriends," makes me wonder if she's got more
you gotta take the goodpersonpill and start personalitymaxxing