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[–] [email protected] 29 points 11 months ago (5 children)

Stop reading crisis media.

Turn off ALL notifications on your phone

Disconnect occasionally.

Or just weed. Copious amounts of weed.

[–] TimLovesTech 20 points 11 months ago (4 children)

I don't think putting your head in the sand makes all the world's problems go away, just makes you ignorant and less prepared to handle them.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 11 months ago

Reading about world problems without acting on them will just give you anxiety.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 11 months ago

Agreed. Paying attention to the local and national news is important. Ignoring the 24 hr crisis news cycle is what I’m referring to.

I know that climate change is happening, am current on recent studies discussing causes, and read about what I can do personally to help. But I don’t watch every broadcast that blame every single possible situation on it, and then continue to harp on it constantly for days on end.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

It doesn't, but it's also not healthy to dwell on it all the time. People definitely need "down time" where they silence their phones and do things that they enjoy.

In no way is this a "cure" for anxiety, but it can help in many instances.

[–] Jax 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Take it or leave it, hypervigilance and anxiety or head in the sand and peace.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Is there like some middle ground. Like I want to be prepared for what could happen, but don't want it to control me where I don't do anything. Kind of struggling with that right now, to be honest.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

Stoicism teaches that you should strive for virtue, but cannot expect any particular outcome. You can't have your happiness and contentment depend on factors outside your control, or you will inevitably be unhappy. Try to be virtuous, try to do the right thing for the right reasons, and if the outcomes are not what you hoped for, then at least you tried. Stoic virtues are wisdom, courage, justice, and temperance.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago

That's just called being normal

Like, I'm aware that the world is fucked. I can't really change that, though I can do my part.

And the world is not irreparably fucked. Just probably irreparably fucked during my lifetime.

We'll get it together eventually.

But the point is, why stress, it doesn't help anything. Don't worry about it. Either take action or don't.

[–] Jax 2 points 11 months ago

Well, I can't speak to a middle ground, but I can say that my anxiety is at its worst when I stall. If I examine what gives me anxiety and take steps to prepare for it, that alleviates the panic.

I don't know what eats away at you so I can't give you the perfect guide. Only you can say what causes you anxiety, and only you can prepare yourself for it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yeah well, I used to use weed for that and now it too gives me anxiety. Won’t touch it unless it’s a single small hit or I got hydroxyzine, CBD, something

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Hyrdroxyzine for the win. Cut my coffee intake and I've been much better lately about my weed and anxiety combo. Best of luck.

[–] JasSmith 1 points 11 months ago

I feel SO much better since cutting out the caffeine. It's a vicious cycle. It gives you a little emotional boost for a couple of hours, then you're just left feeling on edge for the rest of the day. Then it fucks with your sleep, and you need caffeine just to get back to baseline the next day.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Also consider fasting for 1 day a week (32 hrs). Its quite healthy for the body, but I also find that my brain tends to lose focus on all the nebulous dominating anxieties (work, money, school, relationsips, wars, the fact that there will never be any more episodes of Stargate SG-1) and instead it focuses on what it percieves as a more pressing threat, starvation. Which you can easily rationalize away because theres food everywhere. Gives me some mental relief and clarity for a day and its a good form of self discipline

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

For me it's mostly related to my autism among other factors.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 11 months ago (2 children)

What about those of us who can't use weed because THC interacts with medication?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

cries in chronic pain condition

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

That's rough. Do you have to work FT?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

Yeah. I work a great desk job in what I went to school for, so work isn't rough on my body for the most part aside from typing killing my hands. I am going to see a specialist in April to get checked out to see if I had any comorbid conditions develop.

[–] Jax -4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

You see 4 options. You fixate on one.

Not much else to be said.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I wasn't asking for your opinion, dude

[–] Jax -2 points 11 months ago (1 children)