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The instance seems to be mostly right wing trolls. I know defederating is unpopular but I don't think much is to be lost in this case and it can save the mods some headaches.

Edit: the response on exploding-heads.com to my reporting of transphobia. Courtesy of the "second in command"

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[–] [email protected] 50 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

Defederation should be the LAST and FINAL option. From what I understand, this is a small instance that isn't causing much trouble outside of their instance. Block them on your own! I'm on lemmy.world, but personally I would like to keep up to date on the shit they post. I don't think we should start going around defederating communities that we disagree with, even though their opinions are shit, vile, offensive, and disgusting. Leave it up and block them on your own.

Edit: 10 years ago I used to be one of those intolerable fucks. Yes - exactly like them. Until I talked to other people on Reddit, real life, and listened to other ideas. I had a change of heart and hope even a couple of them could too. It happens.

[–] Difficult_Bit_1339 17 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

100%

I don't like how r/conservative handles their moderation but I don't think their subreddit should be nuked.

But things like Men Going Their Own Way, and The Donald or any other subreddits promoting violence and direct hate deserve removal (or de-federation). De-federation should be used as a tool of last resort. For places who are turning to actual violence or outright hatred.

I cannot stress how strongly I disagree with exploding-head's stance on Trans rights and racism but if someone has an odious opinion on gender affirming care or trans athletes then they should be met by people who counter their ideas. Simply cutting them off into isolation provides zero chance of changing their minds.

I understand that some people have no interest in debating people who disagree with them, and that is entirely ok. Block any community or poster that you find offensive but defederation is not something that should be used regularly.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Yes exactly. Just like there are idiots in real life, we ignore them and move on. Everyone is entitled to an opinion even if we disagree with it. Sure people can spout some nonsense devoid of facts we can down vote if thats the case .

You might disagree with someone on politics but like the same sports team for example. There are humans on either side so like in real life we can get along and don't need to agree on everything.

If something is illegal or its hate speech or something like that then report and block the user and the content.

If you don't like a community you can block it but if we shut off instances all of the time I can guarantee you the fediverse will just turn into isolated echo chambers and we'll all be forced back to corporate walled gardens.

If we can coexist in real life we can coexist here.

We need our views challenged to grow. Being corrected is a good thing thats how we learn. Life is short at the end of the day let's not try to take it too serious.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

holy shit, how do I even begin to explain that you can't just "ignore" Nazis and racists and transphobes and letting them keep their platform

you do understand that they hurt real fucking people, right????

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I agree all the way.

[–] Kecessa 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

"personally I would like to keep up to date on the shit they post"

The shit they post is the gateway to worse things for some. You're still free to go check what's going on over there, it doesn't mean they should have access to our space.

[–] god 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

gateway to worse things for some

so you're basically saying "there's nothing wrong with this, but let's ban it anyway because it may be a little wrong in the future"?

[–] Kecessa 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Where did I say there's nothing wrong with what they say?

In the OP you've got the perfect example: "I'm not racist but I can point to BLM and criticize it..." that's exactly how you plant the seed that leads some people to racism, with that "but".

I'll share it again and again: https://youtu.be/P55t6eryY3g

Communities keep deciding not to react to alt-right users until it's too late to get rid of them.

[–] god 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

..... are you saying you can't criticize BLM?

also that yt link lol

i probably already watched it but will again cuz i remember liking it.

upon rewatching a few minutes of it, i can see there's a few fallacies here and there but doens't mean it's wrong.

final edit: wow does he make a shitfuckton of assumptions to just say "if we allow jordan peterson to have a youtube channel we're killing poor black people"

[–] Kecessa 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No, I'm saying that it's exactly the way the alt-right opens doors to more extreme opinions. "I don't think X but...". They keep moving the window of what is and isn't acceptable this way.

Let them participate here and that's exactly what they'll keep doing until the problem is too major to control because they've taken over (see /r/Canada even before /r/metacanada was banned) or a mod puts their big pants on and say enough is enough and bans their instance, but then you're still stuck with all the users that got converted.

[–] god 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I see. Maybe I'm biased because the very few times I've seen them posting here I found them to be pretty funny and liked their presence. Their tactless way of having fun is somewhat endearing in a sense. I'm their polar opposite in terms of political ideology and completely disagree with all of their political points but that doesn't make it not fun to see them hopping around being little nodes of comedic angst.

[–] Kecessa 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

It's already started:

https://sh.itjust.works/comment/287275

Extremists are very good at "just making jokes" and "just asking questions" and maybe to you that's what they're doing, but doing the joke opens the door to "just talk about X for real though" and suddenly people are arguing and you'll have some regular people that will start believing there might be some truth to what the extremists are saying and the spiral begins. They might never reach the deep end, they'll take what they're open to. Someone single and insecure might just adhere to the incel stuff and not the racism, someone who just lost their job when a black person got to keep theirs might adhere to the racism but not to the anti-women stuff...

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

"JAQing off", as I've seen it be referred to. It's always in bad faith.

[–] god 4 points 1 year ago

also the long post on the op is incompatible with my adhd and i have been unable to read it the multiple times i've opened it lol. wallatext