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- The Gender Dysphoria Bible // In depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria.
- Trans Voice Help // A community here on blahaj.zone for voice training.
- LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory // A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers.
- Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
- TLDEF's Trans Health Project // Advice about insurance claims for gender affirming healthcare and procedures.
- TransLifeLine's ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.
- Gender Spectrum // Resources for youth, parents and family, educators, mental health professionals and faith leaders.
Support Hotlines:
- The Trevor Project // Web chat, phone call, and text message LGBTQ+ support hotline.
- TransLifeLine // A US/Canada LGBTQ+ phone support hotline service. The US line has Spanish support.
- LGBT Youthline.ca // A Canadian LGBT hotline support service with phone call and web chat support. (4pm - 9:30pm EST)
- 988lifeline // A US only Crisis hotline with phone call, text and web chat support. Dedicated staff for LGBTQIA+ youth 24/7 on phone service, 3pm to 2am EST for text and web chat.
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I love your look! Is that purple(?) thing like basically sleeves with a hoodie you pop over things? Whatever it is, it's fab and I want one.
Seconding. Love plague doc asthetic.
That’s actually my wife (not pictured) who rolls that aesthetic. I just try to dress like the protagonist of a yet-unreleased Final Fantasy. :D
It’s black, actually! Came from here: https://www.etsy.com/listing/548441223/dams-deluxe-apocalypse-militant-shrug?ref=yr_purchases
Granted, I’m wearing it in a less-revealing way than the creator intended.
This vest, in black, is over the top of it: https://www.mishuboutique.com/products/copy-of-neelix-v2-vest?srsltid=AfmBOoqfOAC5IcENC_N0wNjG6kBhafvPoHAXly_UiVuVEARdzQcNOkn4
Not pictured (but seen in older posts of mine) is: https://www.mishuboutique.com/products/leather-eclipse-silver
That shrug (TIL lol) is so cool, but now that I see that the vest is full length I honestly don't know which I love more!
If I could afford it (and left the house more than once in a blue moon), my wardrobe would be full of these kinds of pieces. 😍
(E: also - why the fuck would anyone downvote you?? 😂)
(Those downvotes are coming from me—I think it’s presumptuous to give me my own approval. However, what I do isn’t what others should do, do what works for you.)
I’ve got posts in my history that should show you more of my insane wardrobe. :D
Will definitely have a non-stalkery look lol
Also you do you with the downvotes, I'm just glad it isn't someone trolling the post/community to be an ass.
I knew I'd seen those glasses before (I'm terrible at remembering faces lol), I now recall seeing your post of you and your wife and thinking how cute you both are!
Also you're killing it in the thigh highs and leather skirt.
I would absolutely raid your wardrobe lmao 😊