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Edit: alt-text: Reddit post in r/TrueOffMyChest

Title: my friend just transitioned but I found out she's naming herself Mildred. I wanna be supportive but, fucking Mildred?

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 4 months ago (1 children)

In contrary to my own comment, I entirely agree with this take.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago (1 children)

So many of us have a ridiculous name. I kept mine to my middle name, but so many don’t, so I can just fully embrace someone deciding she’s talking great grandma’s name and damn the consequences

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I actually sort of am the opposite! Growing up my deadname had an unusual spelling. It was literally immposible for someone to spell it correctly on their first attempt. So every form filled out on my behalf had to be corrected, everytime my name was called there would be a double checking moment who I am. It was just a huge giant pain in the ass and even as a kid I knew I would change it, even for non trans reasons. So my chosen name is much more basic, it's actually one of the most popular names for my birth year.

I can't tell ya what a sigh of relief I give off when a cashier asks my name and just spells it correctly without giving it thought. that I can say who I am and people just... know that it's the person on the forum. So y'all are 10,000,000% valid and I love your damn the consequences vibes! But for me? I'm so happy with my basic simple unremarkable name.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I get that, unfortunately my hard to spell name is my last name and I liked it too much to change it. I also didn’t realize that my common name has so many spellings, but by fuck do a lot of people insist on proving that. I also just like having a name that doesn’t instantly draw people’s attention, especially since my last name does.

My middle name on the other hand is fucking ridiculous, but it’s easy to spell so there’s that.