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[–] ted 2 points 1 month ago

I was going to clip something from the article, but it kept getting more and more wild. Read it.

History will not remember these bigots fondly.

[–] ted 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

On the topic of true trans being in childhood, I'm just figuring it out in my 30s. I do have memories of the feelings all the way back to when I was 4 or 5, which gives me relief, but also, who cares?

Even if someone's gender identity changes when they are older, who cares if they transition? Who cares if they do it just because they think they'll like it? Who cares if they do it just to try it out? Also, with non-binary folk and gender nonconforming folk coming out, it suddenly truly doesn't matter if someone is "real" anymore. Our current understanding and categorizations just don't cut it anymore.

I would have loved being able to grow up in this generation and having the chance to explore my gender. To say that kids don't know or can't tell is such hogwash -- my brain has only ever pushed me in one direction on this topic and everything else has been conscious effort to fit into the box I was told to. Now, in transition, I'm finding people just want me to jump into the other box. Gender is much more complex than the binary makes it out to be and I think a lot of anti trans sentiment is over the fact that trans people make it clear that gender is very important and way more complex than society writ large makes it out to be.

Sorry for the rambling thoughts!

[–] ted 2 points 2 months ago

Yeah, I remember feeling like it was weird, but both of those sound absolutely fine to me now.

I also would never balk at "female" as an adjective in those cases, nor assume the speaker was being misogynist.

[–] ted 3 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Woman as an adjective is picking up in my circles and podcasts I listen to. Woman scientist, woman entrepreneur. It may have sounded weird initially, but I've gotten over it and I suspect it will develop over time to be completely normal.

I wouldn't really compare it to the male/man counterpart, because men aren't demeaned by being called "male" regularly.

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[–] ted 12 points 2 months ago

I ate the onion

[–] ted 21 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I had the same initial reaction but I think the doctor is treating it as a rating and not a fraction. E.g. a 90% grade doctor would recommend it, but they're a 20% doctor.

[–] ted 27 points 2 months ago (3 children)

This is insanity

[–] ted 14 points 3 months ago (12 children)

I don't see a missing word.

[–] ted 10 points 3 months ago

Heck yeah! Just had a person tell me that they think the climate protests that target museums are heinous and I was just speechless as to how you can be so short sighted.

If the world burns, so will the art.

[–] ted -1 points 3 months ago

There are also nasal sprays that are supposed to aid in the blocking of respiratory viruses. Pair that with a mask. Breath as slowly as possible (no gasps, laughs, or yawns) and only through your nose.

[–] ted 25 points 3 months ago (2 children)

You wouldn't download a torrent

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