With difficulty. I consult several guides. Give the highly rated stuff a read.
Reddit printsf is good.
Reddit litrpg
Winners and nominees of awards. Nebula. Bram Stoker...
Goodreads.
Royal road
Scp foundation
Fimfiction
Ultimately, find a good author, read their everything.
When she's turned on. I can smell it. But it isn't really a smell. Like I'm unconsciously smelling it and then my unconsciousness taps my consciousness on the shoulder.
One (old) piece of advice I heard.
Your pocket handkerchief. Rub it on your balls. Then put it back in your breast pocket.
You will get more attention from the girls.
Pheromones are real and powerful.
Shikantaza meditation So smooth
Never happened.
Lime jello with sliced black olives
Confusion appears to be immensely attractive.
I am a carpenter. Which is to say I'm a generalist. I am self-employed. Rural. Pickup truck etc.
I'm pretty confident that there's an afterlife.
I speak from my own research into related phenomena.
The afterlife is basically the dreamworld but moreso.
Because we want the story, not the gender stuff.
Sometimes gender makes no difference. But sometimes the author wants to make a point about gender. I have zero interest in points about gender.
I chose it because the op chose it. To avoid confusion.
Meh