I like to call it Attention Surplus Disorder. It's crazy to me how most people can just focus on something for 50 hours a week that they're not interested in at all, and this doesn't set off warning bells in their head.
Don't get me wrong, there's plenty of antiwork neurotypicals, but it seems weird how many people actively support it.
I got married young too. My spouse didn't even get a ring for the proposal. Total cheapskate! So anyways, I said yes.
Once you're married and dealing with money together, cheapskate is a good thing. We had a minimalist inexpensive wedding.