Varyk

nothing shocking there.

finally 35, she can run for president, she should win. if I trust any politician to pull the States out of a nosedive, it's sanders or AOC, and I do like that she's half a century younger.

my 2 cents:

none of what you've written here indicates you weren't born gay.

"...wish i was in the woman's shoes in porn (autogynephilia), that was my first homo sexual desire."

that doesn't sound like you were "simply born straight"

your post strongly suggests to me you have a lot to learn and accept about sexuality.

"always had a totally masculine identity, male engagements"

saying something like this indicates to me that you don't understand the complexities of masculinity, femininity or sexuality.

did you read a lot of books as a child? is that masculine or feminine? did you climb trees?

assigning labels and expectations to your behaviors may be why you don't view your own sexuality as "a case of normal, stable homosexuality".

which is what it sounds like you are discovering: a case of innate normal, stable homosexuality.

not here. I checked the rules, posts here don't have to be funny.

"I'd do it all day."

this is exactly your problem, that you're okay insulting people. You are bragging about not caring about others.

You care about your own feelings and want everyone to listen to only your feelings.

Insulting people or claiming that you wouldn't mind being insulted doesn't matter here, it's that you're hurting other people.

"as long as it applies to the situation/male I'm speaking with it'll be business as usua"

that's how definitions work, not people, not intention, not culture, and not objectification.

you can choose in your mind to believe that an insult is not insulting, but that doesn't stop the insult from being insulting.

You are exclusively targeting women here.

You can attack gay people on the weekends and swear that you just like hitting people with bats, it has nothing to do with them being gay, but if you are exclusively targeting homosexuals, then you are attacking gay people, it doesn't matter what your asserted beliefs are.

You can claim you don't mean an insult as an insult, but if you use that insult, then you are insulting people.

You are hurting others despite what your feelings are.

"What about the term ladies."

that is socially acceptable depending on the social group and your intentions.

you can say "punk" as a friendly jibe with a friend or you can call someone a punk in a bar and get yourself ostracized or even get your ass beat.

your problem with using "female" is that it's used primarily as an objectifying term in casual conversation, so again, you can choose to claim an insult is not insulting, but that doesn't negate the insult.

Your feelings do not negate the feelings of others.

When you use that term, you are insulting all women using a shorthand to show that you do not respect any woman as an equal person.

"street whore. Should that be shunned too?"

yes, "street whore" is another insulting term that should not be used to refer to half of the human race.

"we should just abolish English..."

that is an impractical and unrealistic solution to your specific bigotry.

There's no reason to punish everyone for your selfish bigotry.

"I really do not understand these weird feelings..."

This is probably a symptom of focusing internally rather than on the community you are a part of.

Empathy is the key. If someone tells you how they would like to be treated, treat them that way.

If they tell you they would not like you to insult them, then don't insult them.

You can choose to insult them if you want, but that doesn't make you a revolutionary, just an asshole.

"hey follow some rule of feelings. It’s absurd."

This is correct because it's what you are insisting.

You are insisting that everyone follow your feelings alone and to ignore the feelings of everyone else.

Which is absurd.

"I doubt any male would find this offensive."

nobody said they would.

"Call em males, they are afterall. "

go ahead, next time you see ir are talking about a man or men , say "hey, male" or "males like to..." see how they respond to what has become a derogatory, sexualized term for a person in casual conversation.

the demeaning objectification is why insecure men say "female" and men are not addressed as "males".

He is a rapist.

does explain everything.

"the squid, measuring about one foot in length"

yes, still cool, but guys.....guys....

he's right.

China has invested a ton of money and diplomatic efforts in Southeast Asia for the past 5 years, and for the next four all Xi has to do is point at Rump to negotiate closer ties.

China is the safer economic and defense partner at least until rump is gone, and probably for much longer.

I used to find them at secondhand shops, and I also reused the ones I got from the store.

if you have a pressure cooker you can sterilize them, and the lids aren't going to fail right away.

that said, i eventually did just buy a case of new jars because I wanted the right jars for the job and uniform materials.

what the AI shit, wasn't this posted a few hours ago also?

why irritate and drive people away from maybe the most important political movement in the US in decades?

i watched the first episode yesterday and liked it, definitely interested in seeing where the show goes.