I mean isn't that most kids though? First time or in the world no matter how you do it is a shock.
What OP is doing is just the first steps to what I'm guessing is going to be a continuing education about how is ok to say no and should be respected. It isn't the end of the road for the conversation about no
I will admit I don't look at this dude face that often but 108 seems off, i can't put my finger on it but it just does. I'd meet you at 104 though