this post was submitted on 14 Oct 2023
315 points (92.9% liked)

Not The Onion

12378 readers
670 users here now

Welcome

We're not The Onion! Not affiliated with them in any way! Not operated by them in any way! All the news here is real!

The Rules

Posts must be:

  1. Links to news stories from...
  2. ...credible sources, with...
  3. ...their original headlines, that...
  4. ...would make people who see the headline think, “That has got to be a story from The Onion, America’s Finest News Source.”

Comments must abide by the server rules for Lemmy.world and generally abstain from trollish, bigoted, or otherwise disruptive behavior that makes this community less fun for everyone.

And that’s basically it!

founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
top 50 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] [email protected] 232 points 1 year ago (101 children)

We want teachers to be teaching and not having to waste time measuring a girl’s shirt or making a girl feel uncomfortable,” Shultz said.

Good because policing what girls wear stems from this fucked idea that boys have no sexual self control or responsibility for same and that women thus have to take responsibility for it via modesty.

So with those idiotic notions, rape victims get blamed for appearance, consent doesn't enter the conversation, rapey boys are "boys being boys", and similar awful shit.

[–] [email protected] 38 points 1 year ago (1 children)

For added context, Shultz is the school board president here. The stunt didn’t change the vote and the new policy that was being protested is the same as other schools in the area that didn’t have any problems regarding dressing.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

For added context, Shultz is the school board president here.

Holy shit 😳 how did I miss that??

I'm glad his ridiculous antics failed.

load more comments (1 replies)
load more comments (100 replies)
[–] [email protected] 201 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (7 children)

From the article:

As a dad, that’s very concerned about my children ....

I may disagree with it, but his kids aren't mine, so he, as the parent, he can prevent his daughters from owning that offending clothing.

...as well as everyone else’s kids in the district,

And here's where it goes off the rails. Why don't you keep your own parenting in your house instead of your neighbor's house, eh? Are you also going to decide what books other parent's kids read? How about what religious beliefs (if any) other parent's kids follow? None of that is your business. If other parents are okay with their kids dressing that way you shouldn't get a say on that.

[–] [email protected] 75 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sadly, there are plenty of people trying to dictate what other people's children read based on their own feelings

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 year ago (5 children)

They'll indoctrinate other people's children into their religion too, if they get the chance.

load more comments (5 replies)
[–] [email protected] 53 points 1 year ago

Maybe focus on parenting your own child instead of everyone's.

Also does this guy have a humiliation fetish?

load more comments (5 replies)
[–] [email protected] 123 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Shouldn't the parents be watching what their kids wear if they are worried about? A basic dress code is all that is needed. Just like the board said its a waste of time to measure girls skirts. Maybe if we didn't taboo the body so much people wouldn't care what someone else is wearing.

[–] Enigma 48 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Hahahaha my parents “watched my clothing” so I either had extra clothes in my bag that I’d change into, or I’d wear them under a top layer of “approved” clothing and take it off later.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 year ago

Parent, here. My kids wear whatever the hell they want, and because I'm not giving them any reason to rebel, they don't feel any urge to do that kind of thing.

And if they did for fun or something? I wouldn't give a shit.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago

I agree I changed my clothes too sometimes in high school. But still a basic dress code would cover the more extreme outfit. But when it comes to a skirt being a slightly short I don't think its worth the school time to check.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Agreed. We all have bodies. Underwear is appropriate for shared spaces (most people dont want to sit on anyone else's ass juice) but aside from that this prudishness of the human form that many people have is silly to me.

Even if the dad DID walk around like that, I think that's his business. We should all be allowed to wear what we want (undies for sanitary reasons) and if something is offensive then people could just, you know, not look!

load more comments (2 replies)
[–] [email protected] 111 points 1 year ago (5 children)

“As a board we voted to ultimately let parents and families decide what is appropriate for them. It is the parents and family’s choice and as long as it doesn’t disrupt the school day, it would be a non-issue.”

I was not expecting this level of common sense from an Arizona school board. Good on them.

load more comments (4 replies)
[–] [email protected] 92 points 1 year ago

I actually find myself siding with the board here, if only because I have heard all too often about dress codes being overly restrictive or overly enforced. Like the board said, they don't want teachers wasting time measuring a girl's shirt when they should be teaching.

[–] [email protected] 50 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If only any of these parents cared about supporting teachers and their kids actually learning.

[–] funkless_eck 23 points 1 year ago

also, none of the traumatic things that happened to me in my adolescence were based around the clothes any of us were wearing.

[–] [email protected] 46 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sometimes my daughter wants to go to school in something too revealing.

We tell her to change because we're her parents and that's called parenting. We don't need the school to tell her what to wear.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 year ago

Nobody's concerned with what their own children are wearing. They're concerned that they might be exposed to abdomen skin (the horror!) because of what someone else's child is wearing.

[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 year ago (12 children)

His argument is that he looks like a fool dressed like that, so everyone who dresses like that looks like a fool? Weird thinking.

[–] [email protected] 42 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

his argument is the new dresscode would allow young girls to dress like that and he thinks the school should police it, instead of just raising his kids to be well adjusted and responsible. or it makes his pp hard and it makes it harder to hide that he's a pedo when he's in public

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago

The goal of people pushing agendas like this is the elimination of public education and state support for religious schools via “charter schools”. A lot of the people who run for school board who push parents rights are religious fundamentalists, real estate developers, or charter school consultants. This is at least true where I live.

load more comments (10 replies)
[–] [email protected] 38 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Real big get back in the kitchen energy from this guy. He probably needs the kids more covered up because he can't control himself around too much exposed teenage girl skin.

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 year ago

Oh, he's a never-nude too! I didn't see him at the convention last year in Berlin. There were literally dozens of us there. Dozens!

[–] FreshLight 25 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Can't parents just talk to their children about how to dress?

I feel like that's a simpler solution and this way the school can focus on teaching.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My wifes a teacher, they do have to spend an absolutely mind boggling amount of time covering shit that really should be handled at home. Literally calling parents about their kids refusing to do any work and the parent saying "I dont know what you want me to do"

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I hope someone called the police. Someone stole that poor man's ass.

load more comments (1 replies)
[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

it's crazy that they're making a crop top and short shorts mandatory dress code for all students

load more comments
view more: next ›