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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

mental health, physical health, i don't even need a third thing those two would likely fix all my problems...

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sleep
Sleep
Sleep

.... I have a problem with my sleep schedule

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I think if I could get sleep sorted everything else would just fall out

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

This question is super timely for me so I'll be lurking with great anticipation 🀫

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I think learning a language. Specifically Chinese as it is the language with the most native speakers on the planet. There is nothing really stopping me from doing this so I don't know what kind of magic would help me focus on this task.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Parenting. I get so overwhelmed by my kids.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I'm proud of you. Just by the fact that you're acknowledging it. Thankyou for being a good parent by heart ❀️

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Social skills, fashion and getting better at programming.

I think I have ok social skills but I'd like to hone them and be more outgoing. Ideally I would like to be comfortable talking to new people in any group setting.

Fashion - sweat pants and a t shirt is comfy but it isn't cutting it anymore. Every time I search men's fashion I get rich guys wearing shirts that are to small.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Totally depends on your age and style, but check out streetwear communities. Its super flashy but the basics of proportions and colours can be applied to any casual outfit.

Get some jeans that fit and some neutral (not graphic) t-shirts and you'll be ahead of a lot of people.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Learning a coding language, learning a spoken language and motivation.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I started DuoLingo a couple of years ago and slowly started learning German just for fun. It’s like 5-15 minutes a day and I’ve gotten decent at the language without a whole lot of effort. It’s no Rosetta Stone but they keep it fun and interesting.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Du schaffst das! Ich glaub’ an dich :)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I am learning C# and Japanese my problem is the third one the motivation lol. It’s hard to find it most of the time.

[–] Aurenkin 1 points 1 year ago

Possibly too generic but mental health.