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[–] [email protected] 156 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Being poor and idolizing the rich.

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[–] [email protected] 111 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Bigotry and prejudice. Not necessarily uneducated, but certainly poorly educated.

[–] [email protected] 40 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Coping mechanism for the poor, they can't admit they're at the bottom and so it feels good to put other people down for nonsense reasons

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[–] [email protected] 111 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Being proud of not knowing things, and having no desire to change that.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago

Sometimes my friends laugh at me for how little I know about pop culture. I laugh back though. I wouldn't say I'm proud of it but it's just funny.

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[–] [email protected] 101 points 1 year ago (29 children)
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[–] [email protected] 86 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Thinking that someone without a formal education is somehow beneath you.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 year ago (5 children)

On the flipside, the belief that someone with a formal education is somehow beneath you or brainwashed for it.

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[–] [email protected] 84 points 1 year ago (2 children)

People who litter. Throw their rubbish out the window of the car. Or who throw rubbish in public, like into drains or sidewalks.

It’s in the mentality, and I say the lack of education is the reason for it.

It’s sad to see the people of my country do this, and to see it with your own eyes.

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[–] [email protected] 78 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Not being able to entertain ideas. "What would the world be like with 100% renewable energy?" "Would basic healthcare for every person help our country?"

I tried to explain the 4 day work week to someone that gets paid by the hour. You make the same money but work 4 days a week instead of 5. Insisted he got paid less. Had to explain like a Bingo card with a Free Space, 1 day he is paid even if he stays home.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I don't know if that's necessarily wrong of them. There isn't any precedent for hourly workers to be paid when they're not working. The "four day workweek" as described simply means that any time over 32 hours a week is overtime. Hourly workers in general don't really have a "workweek" anyway because they will often have multiple jobs or will work whatever shift they can pick up that works with their schedule.

They understood how the 4-day workweek works based on how the 5-day workweek works. I think maybe you need to listen more to them and try to understand your own proposition better.

When companies voluntarily implement 4-day workweeks, they are literally either cutting 8 hours or doing 10-hour shifts. They do not pay for hours not worked.

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[–] [email protected] 78 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (17 children)

Not trusting in science.

Edit: Since there are many comments, I would like to clarify my statement. I meant that you should rather trust scientists, that the earth is round / that there is a human-made climate change, etc. and not listen to some random internet guy, that claims these things are false although he has made no scientific tests or he has no scientific background. I know that there are paradigm shifts in science and sometimes old ideas are proven to be wrong. But those shifts happen through other scientific experiments/thoughts. As long as > 99 % of all scientists think that something is true, you should rather trust them then any conspiracy theorist...

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[–] [email protected] 76 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Being a conservative and accusing every progressive person of being a pedophile.

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[–] [email protected] 67 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (12 children)

I see this in a lot of places I do work:

Toolboxes covered in union stickers, AND Trump stickers...

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[–] [email protected] 61 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Being a baby. What do they even know?

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[–] [email protected] 59 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (10 children)

Parents feeding their baby cola in bottles and smoking while pregnant are two things that usually cause me to make assumptions

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[–] [email protected] 58 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Being proud of not owning books

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[–] [email protected] 56 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (10 children)

taking Ayn Rand's work seriously. five seconds of critical thought and her entire philosophy comes crashing down

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[–] [email protected] 56 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Not understanding the marginal tax rate.

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[–] [email protected] 51 points 1 year ago (2 children)

They think opinions are facts.

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[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Black/white thinking. Everything is either bad or good, the problem or the solution.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Thinking everything is gray is also an uneducated response to this kind of thinking. Too many people refuse to stand up for a point because they think that 'all sides are bad' or 'well the good side isn't perfect'.

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[–] [email protected] 43 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A Big Mouth Billy Bass that's been hacked with a recording of someone screaming "POORLY EDUCATED!"

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[–] [email protected] 43 points 1 year ago

Racist and intolerance to people different than them

[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 year ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 year ago

Refusing to accept that they are wrong.

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[–] [email protected] 40 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Not wanting to tax the rich because "I might be rich one day".

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[–] [email protected] 39 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (11 children)

Reckless driving, speeding, having a loud car, having a lifted pickup truck.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 year ago

Utter confidence in an area without expertise and without room for doubt or challenge.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Associating with arbitrary groups, such as football fans, nationalists, wearing certain clothing brands

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Trying to push mlm schemes like essential oils

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 year ago (12 children)

Being a republican. Sure there are some educated grifters who decide to label themselves as republican, but your average republican voter is a mouth-breathing fucking idiot.

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 year ago (2 children)

"Let's go Brandon!" Bumper stickers.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago

Not being curious. Education should never stop. You should constantly be seeking intriguing books, new ideas, different perspectives. Once you've lost your curiosity or pridefully believe in one opinion and one way of thinking, no matter your schooling, you have at that moment become poorly educated.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not listening to other people's opinions and ideas

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago (8 children)

"Whataboutism", or if you are unfamiliar with the term:

"The act or practice of responding to an accusation of wrongdoing by claiming that an offense committed by another is similar or worse"

People that use this mechanism are "poorly educated" and unable to hold a conversation and they should just be mocked by whatabouting even harder, so they can maybe understand that they're dumb and that's not how you should debate.

Example of the last argument I had recently with my dumb c*nt father:

  • Me: You shouldn't idolize that politician, he evaded literally billions in taxes and that befalls on citizens like you
  • Dumb c*nt father: Yeah? And what about that other politician?
  • Me: What about the disappearing middle class?!
  • D.C.F.: What...?
  • Me: WHAT ABOUT THE BEES!?!
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[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

religion and the belief in the supernatural/paranormal. also the belief in conspiracy theories.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ironically, defending arguments using scientific studies and experiments, but not being able to think critically about the methodology used or what the results mean. Too often people will cite scientific literature based off the title and MAYBE skim it. Trying to have a discussion with them will usually result in them calling you anti-science.

A good example is the pseudo-scientific belief common within incel circles that women can store and absorb dna from past sexual partners and that their children can then have more than one genetic father (an excuse to shame sexually active women while fear mongering about cuckoldry). If you track down the source the study actually explicitly explains exactly why this isn't the case.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago (14 children)

Being poor or lower middle class and voting for right wing/conservatives. You essentially give away your hard earned money and give it to ultra rich and worsen the quality of your life.. usually because the right wing scares people to be afraid of other people and new phenomena.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Wearing camo and American flag shit in public. Honestly just having American flags on anything now pretty much is the same as that read hat

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Believing that capitalism lifts people out of poverty.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago

Nationalism

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