So there’s a complete misunderstanding on what happened last night and my gf is angry. I can understand why she’s upset but it’s not what it looks like.
So last night I went to a Juneteenth party and my gf was supposed to go with us but she got sick..I was going to stay inside with her but she insisted I go out and have fun. So her sister and I went together and it was supposed to be the 3 of us but it turned out to be just her sister and I.
So we go to the party and there were moments where we were grinding and she sat on my lap but in a platonic manner. Her friend was apparently at this party and she took video / picture and sent to my gf. Which is a gross violation of my privacy and I look at her friend differently now. Either way my gf was heated. I tried to explain to my gf that we didn’t do anything. Even her friend told her she didn’t see us do anything more than that. We didn’t kiss or anything but my gf still finds it inappropriate.
I tried to explain this won’t happen again. If she finds it inappropriate I respect her boundaries. I was more so looking at it from the perspective like when girls dance on each other, it doesn’t mean anything because it’s purely platonic. I was just looking at it the same way because her sister ? Eww no I would never do anything or cheat because I’m not that type of guy. The thought of being with her sister/cheating makes me puke because cheating is disgraceful