Please keep an open mind while reading this because I am not fully innocent here. So my gf and I have been together for 3 years and for some periods in our relationship I was unfaithful. Last year my friend Nadia and I hooked up and my brother told on me. (Unrelated but he’s dead to me now, I skipped his wedding and everything)
My gf Amina understandably took this really hard but we both worked hard to figure out how I can earn her trust back. We had to both make some compromises as she wanted me to cut off my friend Nadia which I couldn’t do. We came to a compromise I could only hang with her in a group setting and I can’t be the only male hanging with my female friends. It changed the dynamic of a lot my friendships but that was the consequence of my actions.
I have done my part and upheld my in out the bargain but she’s moving the goal post. One of the males Brian in our group is having a trip for his birthday. Nadia is also Brian’s friend and our friend group has male and females. There will be 4 males and 3 females, so more men than women.
My gf is completely objecting and saying I can’t go on trips with Nadia even as a group. But she never said that before, I will make sure that I’m not alone with her and I keep telling Amina that but she won’t listen