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[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Eating meat unnecessarily is immoral.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago (12 children)

Schools should teach more practical subjects, they're more useful to loads of people and improve engagement. If they have to reduce subjects like history to do that then they should.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I really miss things like shop class existing. I would have thrived in that kinda stuff.

I don't wanna reduce history but more practical skills would be nice. Honestly not really sure what I'd change to bring things like shop class back, but I probably wouldn't want it to be history.

English maybe? Its massively important that kids learn to read and learn from books but I think formal grammar and whatnot have way too much emphasis placed on them. Ability to communicate effectively is affected by grammar, but you can communicate extremely effectively with "wrong" or informal grammar, which people generally intuitively pick up on. I'd rather more emphasis on practical communication- but then I'm not sure that would actually make more space for things like shop class. I dunno 😅

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

If it wasn't for American gun owners, the fascists would have already destroyed us.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Make housewives (or house husbands, not gonna judge) viable again. Women in the workplace was a crummy deal all things considered.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I think there are too many people on this planet. I see often people stating that this is not the case so this is often something people are vocal about.

Or maybe a more accurate way to briefly describe my point of view. I think there are too many people on this planet based on our current ways of consumption and destruction of resources. There may be an argument for a planet with over 8 billion people with the ability to provide food, shelter and all other aspects of life and social security that does not affect our environment so harshly and negatively but even then I just don't see it.

With so many people, we seem to have lost the ability to our right to roam. Something that I think is important for multiple reasons. People used to migrate for a number of reasons. Seasonal changes, disaster, allowing areas to regrow and repopulate in regards to land and wildlife, travelling to where wildlife is excessive, planned/controlled fires and so many other reasons.

When we settle into these large cities, we lose the ability to roam and ignore all the local environmental benefits of people roaming. The land has to be reshaped into providing for a constant, permanent settlement. The cities require outside resources to grow and maintain itself and it's much harder to see and understand the resource demand when we are no longer directly involved in maintaining the land. We are now focused on maintaining a city just for us humans.

I think this point of view is scary or intimidating to some people because it means giving up many modern conveniences. As if life can not be lived any other way.

I guess I also come from a point of view where I'd rather live a short dangerous life full of wonder compared to a long, sterile life of loneliness and resentful anger. Fuck borders, they are as made up as money, gender and religion. I want to roam and be free.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

With so many people, we seem to have lost the ability to our right to roam.

I have not heard that point of view before. Thank you for sharing, I think it's quite interesting.

I would like to note that even in medieval history, with a much smaller population, roaming resulted in clashes and wars :(

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

My perspectives come from the indigenous histories I have learned about through my life. It took many years, multiple countries and surprisingly some YouTube videos for me to get to this point.

Understanding how recent history has affected indigenous populations through colonialism and exploitation has been... Depressing.

I also tend to want to look outside of European history. As a not "white" person who grew up in a "white" country, I've had European history shoved into my life in every way possible. There's a broader world to learn from and appreciate.

I don't think clashes between different peoples can be avoided entirely, but the scale of environmental damage would never be as destructive as what we are witnessing today.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Thanks for sharing this idea. I'll have to think about it some further, it's really interesting!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

If you have interest in indigenous histories, I can recommend the YouTube channel Cogito. A lot of their earlier works give a nice overview of different indigenous cultures.

How potatoes saved the world and How aboriginal Australians made Australia are two videos that really help connect some of my thoughts and experiences on what I had learned about indigenous history, especially in regards to colonialism.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

There's no ethical way to kill someone who's done nothing to you and doesn't want to die.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

Moral relativism and the postmodern position of 'nothing is true' (with the accompanying commandment not to think about anything too deeply because, again, no underlying truths exist) are now more than ever at the core of Western thought and the main reason that, despite the fact that the West has and continues to pillage and extract resources around the world thanks to their military superiority (and moral relativism plus a real belief in the racial superiority of Europeans) and probably enjoy some of the materially richer and safer existences ever, people in these countries have to pop pills/drugs/booze or turn the gun on their families and themselves to deal with their existences. The confusion is unbearable, and the lack of stable, productive, morally fulfilling ideology makes one aimless and prone to failure because the world and their understanding of the world are not compatible (can't make good predictions if your starting point is wrong or inexistent!).

I expect disagreement and even harassment on Lemmy/Western online spaces because, well, I know who I'm talking to. But doctors don't waste their time on the healthy! Travel a bit and go to brown places and you'll see what I'm talking about.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago

Eh, in "brown places" they would mock you for even admitting you have mental struggle. That used to be true even in the west not so long ago, when I was growing up, it was still being mocked and made fun of.

So no, "brown countries" don't have this solved, the west is simply currently in a phase where it's ok to not pretend everything is fine just because of peer pressure.

And that helps with the slow process of healing, if you have to bury all your traumas deep instead, you can't ever heal.

Mine and previous generations have a shitton of traumas buried deep, but we were the first who started trying to be better in this regard. Our kids will have much better mental health simply because fewer of us have untreated personality disorders that we spread onto our children.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I wish everyone had the opportunity to search for balance. The pills just extend how long you can carry the discomfort.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

People who complain about multiple once-in-a-lifetime events happened in their lifetime really are snowflakes.

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