AITA? My fiancé (46M) and I (36F) got engaged in August of 2024. We immediately decided on October 25, 2025 for our wedding date. At the time we got engaged, my best friend (37F) was pregnant and due in November 2024. Her daughter came early on Halloween 2024 (which no one could predict). Fast forward to now and our venue has told us that we may need to push our wedding back 1 week until November 1st. This is not ideal for us, but we have no control over it. We can’t move venues because of our budget and we already planned a cruise for our honeymoon that following week. When I texted my best friend to tell her about the change of plans (I told her as soon as I found out), her response was that she would hate to be traveling on her daughters birthday and/or not be at home for her daughters birthday - even though the daughter will be with her at my wedding and she’s turning 1 so she won’t even understand that it’s her birthday. I feel as though my friend is being selfish and not considering that I didn’t do this on purpose and my wedding was planned before she had her baby. AITA for not changing my wedding date to accommodate my best friend?