The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/Alternative-Pin-4599 on 2025-04-16 15:24:55.
My friend (17f) really likes to go skating and got really sad that our ice rink wont be having public skate for a while since its going to be summer. They are having public skate all this week for one of the last times till winter and I told her I would go skating with her sometime this week. Neither of us have cars of our own yet so we needed a ride and our usual ride was unavailable.
Yesterday her older sister said she would drive us but she didn't want to drive out to my house so I would need to sleep over at my friend's house. Now I usually would but we also had plans for the next few days after and if I had done that I probably wouldn't be able to relax at home for the next two days. I want to just chill out at home for a bit because it is our summer break. Her sister already didn't like me and then my friend told me that when I said I didnt want to sleep over, her sister kept calling me a bitch.
This morning she called me and said her sister said that she would drive and pick me up if I wanted, but she wasn't happy about it. I know that if I had said yes she would have liked me less because she had to go out of her way to pick me up, so I said no cause I didn't want to burden her. But then my friend told me that her sister said she hates that I cancel plans. My friend and I were going to have a sleepover tonight anyway, but she canceled that last night apparently and I didn't know. I told her I was still up for a sleepover tonight if she wanted and she just said she will think about it when she is done skating.
I think that she is mad at me right now because I didn't go skating with her even if it will be one of the last times for a while and her sister is probably just making her more mad at me. Im not very social and Im was afraid that I would be drained if I spent that much time away from home around others. She said she wasn't mad at me last night for canceling but then she cancelled all our other plans and that makes me think she was lying. I think this ment a lot to her and I feel like I abandoned her just to play games at home. Am I the asshole?