The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/Decent_Crazy_5286 on 2025-04-16 14:16:53.
So I (17M) am part of a groupchat with another 4 people, my closest friend (17F) posted in the groupchat about a bizarre dream she had last night, about one of the other group members sisters (the member being 17F her sister is 15F, 16 this year) . ill refer to the other member as susan to make this easier. This is the message my friend sent about the dream:
"guys today i had a really weird dream where me and Susan's sister were running from those big AT-ATs from star wars, i was doing just fine until she decided to take over the wheel of our car and we crashed, way to go (sisters name)"
to which there was an immediate response from Susan, whos sister was featured in the dream which read:
"1. wtf
- dont ever say that
- you sound like a motherfucking criminal thinking about my sister.
immediately then everyone else in the gc (17M and 16F) jump to her side and berate my friend on how weird and inappropriate it is to be dreaming of Susan's sister. I was honestly baffled by it and was really confused as to how the dream was inappropriate in any way? its not like she had just admitted to having an explicit or romantic dream about her, they were running from star wars characters? At first I thought it was a joke so i asked them if they were joking...to which they then too started to berate me for thinking they were joking, ive known these guys for years so we banter with each other a lot, but it was very clear now this was NOT joke and they all genuinely believed that it was incredibly fucked up my friend would dream something like this. To which i said to them it most likely has no deep meaning whatsoever. My friend has met Susans sister quite a few times, and quite recently actually, so its most likely that Susans sister just happened to appear in her dream because its just someone she knows. To which everyone in the group chat said "I have never dreamed about people i know before" and claimed they control their dreams every night. Now i lucid dream a lot, so I'm quite familiar with how they work, and theres no way they just selectively choose not to dream about people every night. The argument went on for quite some time with us all being called weirdos and stalkers until eventually we were both kicked out the groupchat, its been a few hours now and ive heard nothing, honestly i think the whole chat was being overly sheltered and sensitive and getting worked up over absolutely nothing, but i just wanted to see if there was something im missing and if theres any way the dream could have been interpreted as inappropriate? were we both the assholes??