The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/ArrieBeer on 2025-04-16 10:54:17.
I'm going to a wedding for my 2 friends I've know for years. The wedding has been in the works for a year now. Super excited for them, but bride's condition was no bringing someone new to the wedding that she has not met yet.
Cut to December and I meat my GF, super sweet and supportive, but she has a bit of trauma from past relationships treating her like shit, this makes any situation where I leave her alone to go out with my friends or do something where I leave her alone in a room she starts crying and gets pissed.
So now the wedding is coming up and she hasn't met the bride so I can't take her, as we already had a discussion about the wedding and she understood the situation and said it's ok if I go. Now today months after the discussion she messages me and says she's upset that she'll be coming through to my place the day of the wedding and basically waiting for me to come home. She admitted that she'll probably end up crying and us having a fight. I argued that if that's the case why doesn't she just come through to my place the day after.
She's not budging on being upset over being alone on friday night (which isn't a guarantee cause the wedding starts early and whebwill probably meave around 5 or 6 pm). Her coming on Saturday isn't an option as she refuses. I keep telling her I'm not budging on this. I am going. The wedding is 2 hours away by car and I'm carpooling with my friend and his gf. So I don't have control over when I get back. My gf offered to pay for my gas but I don't want to drive all the way to and back alone. Honestly I also know if I have to leave early I'm gonna be annoyed and will probably also result in a fight.
So AITA?
Will give context where needed.