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Am I the Asshole?

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The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/Weird_Square_4155 on 2025-04-16 05:58:51.

my gf and i are on holiday on a resort town, she met a nice woman about the same age as her (late 20's) and they got talking, we were having dinner with them later after they invited us out. the husband was nice at first but I found him really creepy, he kept commenting on my girlfriend, saying she was really pretty, saying he'd "never dated an asian" (my gf is asian) and asking me what it was like dating an asian girl (like how the fuck am i supposed to answer that?)

he kept complimenting her and asking me how i managed to get a girl like that. meanwhile his wife was also complimenting me, she called me handsome and good looking several times. at one point she was like "i hate going out without my husband cause i always get hit on by strangers, but none of them are as handsome as you". wtf right? she'd had a few wines at that point and was getting drunk, but still... there were other instances where she called me handsome.

at another point she said "my type is guys with black hair" (i have black hair).

at one point it was too much, i got a hunch they were swingers, i couldn't take. I faked a phone call and pretended we had to leave for an emergency, we left before the food had even arrived, I left money on the table and we left.

My gf was furious when she found out i made up the emergency, I told these people were swingers, she thought I was crazy, we had a huge argument

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