Am I the Asshole?

The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/CrownedFreak on 2025-04-07 21:56:55.

I (21m) enjoy getting jumped by my dogs when I come home from work, when they want to play, and when they get riled while I pet them. My mother however has been trying to get them to be "Calmer" dogs and not allowing any form of excitement that would riled them up in the house. However, another of what she's doing is just baring the dogs from anything fun, and normal dog behavior. I have stated multiple times that how she's going about it is incorrect, I mean yeah certain behaviors like trying to steal food, and jumping on the table/counter tops are a great thing to stop, but playing tug of war, showing excitement when seeing their people, the whole shebang. I shouldn't have to not show my affection for my dogs everything I'm home all to suck the joy out of their little doggo lives.