The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/Slyfox21- on 2025-04-06 07:09:21.
So i (16f) have been friends with this girl (16f) lets call her R for about 6 years now and trough those years we have had good and bad times but i always tought she saw me as a friend. Well last week when i was in class with her and my other friends one of my friends kept asking me about my past (I had an ED) and i didnt really wanna go into detail about it infront of everyone and i told them all id talk about it later. R got really upset cause of this and said to me loudly "Why dont you tell us anything anymore how can we be besties if you dont tell me everything" i was shocked beacouse i really do tell them everything so i told her that its kinda personal and i didnt really want to tell it now. After that she got mad and didnt talk to me for the rest of the week.
So after a bit of time i asked a mutual friend if she has noticed the same and she told me she had and how R had been acting weird towards me all week. So turns out she had been talking behind my back and basically makeing fun of me to my friends.
So then i remembered i had given her a Pandora piece for christmas and it was really expencive (abt 50€) so i decided to take it back. So when we has a sleepover i took the piece from the bracelet and slid it into my bag and then i left in the morning.
For a few days after she acted really cold to me and then i got a message from one of her friends basically saying "Hi would you kindly give back the piece you stole from x persom". I was confused cause i dont even know this person so i go back and forth with her me denieing takeing the piece and her saying how expencive the piece is (No shit i bought it) and how i am weird and most likely took it. After a bit of this she stop answering so I tought it was over. The next day tho i saw R reading the messages i had sent to her friend.
So now im just wondering AITA cause i guess it was a gift for her and it seems she liked it but again im here asking reddit.