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Am I the Asshole?

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The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/Kelle0810 on 2025-04-06 06:40:35.

Obs, this story will have fake name (sorry for my English, im from Sweden)

Hey, sorry for the bad Writing, i just really need to know if i did wrong. Me (16M) and my girlfriend/gf (16f) have been together for about over 3 years. We have had out ups and down but we are still happy, that was until Friday (posting this on a Saturday). My girlfriend wrote to me telling me that she and a friend are thinking about getting a tattoo Machine, and she wanted to tattoo the first letter of my name tattood on her ankel. I told her that i didnt want her to get a tattoo when she is this age. I did also say that she is the one to decide, cause is her body her choice, but still, i didnt want her to get it tattood on her at this age.

She got really sad, and here is where i might have been the ass hole up. I asked her, what if we broke up in the future, and she got really sad about that. She said that she has had Nightmares now becouse of me, and I feel terrible.

But the thing is that me and her might need to break up. I might need to move in 2 years, to continue studying, and she cant even handel the thought of me moving, so long distance would be possible. Thats Why i dont want her to get a permanent stamp on her leg.

So reddit, AITA?

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