Hello all! Quick info for this, I F26 live with 2 guys both M25, I pay an extra $250 per month so I can have the master bedroom that has its own bathroom. one of my roommates recently got a new job and now wakes up at 5 in the morning (consequently, the same time as my other roommate) and now they bicker over who gets to shower at what time. James (the one who is just now getting up this early) texted me asking if he could use my shower in the morning so him and our other roommate don’t conflict on shower times. I didn’t answer the text message at the time because I was driving and ended up forgetting about it
He actually just ended up using my shower that morning while I slept over at my boyfriends without asking and I feel like it’s already a HUGE invasion of privacy I don’t want this story to be too TMI but I have personal things in my shower. So obviously when I found this out I flipped the fuck out on him.
I told him he can never use my shower and in fact can never even come upstairs after that. He asked what I meant and where the hostility was coming from and I ended up sending him a screenshot of him IN MY ROOM on the ring camera I have set up. AITA here? He’s making me feel like I’m being stingy and an asshole :/