c/femboy

What are you even on about?

I get what you are saying. It would have been better to use X symbol as the header and maybe female symbol under as one of the things femboy is not. I can see how it could be misinterpreted.

Nice use of the table!

I still understand your reaction, Smorty. You had a gut reaction that was unrelated to the intention of the post, and that's okay. 💙

That makes sense, some people are sensitive to the evil words, and that's totally valid.

Smorty is a chill girl, and based on previous interactions with her I try to give the benefit of the doubt. I think she interpreted the gender labels as headers rather than being items on the lists. I was trying to get her to re-evaluate her response, but this is the internet and subtlety is a lost cause. I should have just expressed what my actual opinion was, in plain english, instead of trying to be clever. This isn't a dig at Smorty, but just an observation of internet culture at large. As for my actual opinion, expressed in plain english, that's the hard part, i'm bad at actually describing my opinion, so that's still in progress.

yes!! u got it exactli right. i kno op is vrri nice n comfi so i kno intention isnt evil <3 bt is nice! n i undrstnd what meme says.

yis, fembois r not womn or transwomn!!! diffrnt!!! jus lik tombois r not transmascs or men!!!! vrri tru n u totalli agee <3 <3 <3

it rlli jus is that the top symbols mek me thnk "hmm comfi words on male side, uncomfi words on female... grr big sad ;("

it wud maybsies mek mor sens to hav somthin lik femboi flag on left side n like--.- ❌ symbol on othr.. maybe. this way is vrri obvious what is meant n theres no side thats presentd "bad"

I know that's not what you meant, we've talked before and I know you're quite reasonable. you, me, and op all want for the same thing.

the phrasing tho makes it sound like you want to shut down a valid conversation because there's a word you don't like in it.