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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

That's both expensive and not available where I live :P It is the long term goal however.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Rip and tear. Rip and tear until it is done.

(I wouldn't recommend this but I can't stop doing it)

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Actually you can! Gently with tweezers or if you like to feel like a thousend bees sting you at once, you can use an epilator.

Ouch

[–] [email protected] 57 points 3 days ago (4 children)

I'm not trans but I hate this as well 😭 my beard grows uneven so I can't even leave it on if I wanted to

Meanwhile my hairline loses land faster than the netherlands would if they didn't build dams

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 days ago

Oh damn hitting close to home today

[–] thelsim 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Dikes, not dams :) Though I guess we also have dams?

Anyway, fuck facial hair.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (4 children)

I've only lived here for a few months still learning, thanks for the correction I'm learning!

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I'm lucky I don't have the hair thinning problem. The beard sucks though, I always hated having a beard. It's one of the first signs looking back that I wasn't anywhere near as cis as I thought I was.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago

Now this is relatable

[–] [email protected] 33 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (8 children)

I'm not trans but I can relate with this. I would live very happy without facial hair.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

How do you wear your 80s style moustache without facial hair?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

What do you mean, I don't really understand????

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

If one does not have facial hair, they do not use the 80's mustache. So, since my facial hair is, to say the least, lacking, I don't use th 80's mustache.

Where did I failed to follow your reasoning? I got that feeling.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Same here. And it's not just for to shaving. Why do I have hair on my shoulders, back, etc. I'd be happy if every single person was bald. Nobody can complain then, no judgement on hair choice, colour, etc. knowing us humans though, we would fine ways to make our skulls look different.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Tattoos or scarification comes to mind. Weird piercings. Or funny hats.

I made up my mind very early that if/when I get bald, I'll just shave my head. Makes no sense to me to hold on to half dozen hairs on my head. But I wouldn't like to see everyone bald. I like seeing how people use their hair to express themselves. When I see someone with their hair dyed a wild color my only concern is how bad it may be for the hair and if I'm crossing that narrow line between looking and staring. But the look? Really not my concern. Makes the world a more interesting place to exist.

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 3 days ago

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago (2 children)

My older brother told the excited me that was beginning to grow facial hair that it's a curse cause you keep shaving and the next day it's back. I basically agree now.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

And why does scalp hair not? 😭

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (2 children)

am I the only one whos facial hair started growing extremely slow after starting hrt?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Mine slowed, then laser did wonders. Then I hit my late 20s and it started coming in again because biology is a dick sometimes

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

yes :'(

mine's going just as strong as before

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

how long are you on hrt? it only started to grow slower like 3 months in

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

1 year a few days ago ! the rest of my body hair has been impacted, but not the beard

[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (10 children)

Started using a facial hair removal cream, and holy shit what a difference it has made. My face is so much smoother now, and it stays smoother for way longer! Highly recommend for any femboys or transfems looking for a good facial hair solution.

Edit:

For everyone asking, I use this! Not sponsored, I do not claim this is safe, but it's worked well for me the last few times I've used it and I haven't noticed any longterm issues. I apply it on heavy and let it sit for a little over 4 min, then I can just wipe away all the beard hair.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago

E L E C T R O S T A B B I N G

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I got a nood flasher laser (light?) hair removal device for my wife a few months ago. It is safe to use on faces, but it does not work for all skin and hair colors.

https://trynood.com/products/the-flasher-2

[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 days ago

Check it out, this gal's posting noods!

[–] explodicle 8 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Now my beard is going bald too, and I'm like "finally, useful baldness". Good riddance.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago (1 children)

A few laser sessions seem to have not made a difference to me sadly

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Damn I was considering it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

I think it just takes a lot more than a few. I also have light colored hair so it's less effective on me

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago

I hate it too, facial hair sucks. I wish I could just get rid of it. Sadly it might be a while before I can get electrolysis.

[–] southsamurai 10 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I'm not sure if you're actually asking, or expressing the emotions involved in meme form, and I don't want to possibly make those emotions worse by bringing up the physiology of it without asking first. But, I do know a little about that specific subject, so I'm willing to type that out, if you're interested.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Not what I'm asking, but share your knowledge friend! perhaps behind a spoiler as another catgirl suggested

[–] southsamurai 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Another catgirl did have a great idea :)

I'll add that if someone wants to avoid mentions of the various chemicals of the body, probably best to not uncover the text

so, part of how hair gets turned from the delicate "peach fuzz" called vellus into a beard is testosterone. That's pretty obvious, I guess, but it bears saying.

T, and DHT spike during puberty. This leads to us growing thicker hair across our bodies, even for those folks with ovaries and no testicles. The combination of DHT and T moves into the follicles, into the actual cells involved in growing hair.

Now, I'd have to go back and re-read a bunch of stuff to be accurate and detailed about the changes inside those cells, and it sound be jargon anyway. But the gist is that the way the keratin is produced, and the cells layer is increased, leading to a thicker and tougher hair. This change is to the cells themselves, the cells of the follicle that produce hair. This means that once those follicles are exposed to androgens, it becomes permanent, within a given range of permanence.

Even when you take anti-androgens, they can't undo the changes already made. And, unfortunately, estrogen and other feminizing hormones don't cause the kind of changes that could completely undo the effects of testosterone.

What the feminizing hormones can do is decrease the effects of those changes. The good thing is that those changes tend to be equally permanent, within a given range of permanence. The hair will be thinner, softer (as in less coarse) and may be able to get longer (largely genetics). Until and unless testosterone is returned to the system whatever changes do occur from HRT will remain, even if the HRT is discontinued.

Which means that it takes a combination of efforts to eliminate the thicker, coarser hairs produced under testosterone. You have to eliminate or suppress the T itself, while applying a feminizing agent, then use methodology to either further reduce the thickness from there (like repeated plucking/waxing as one example), or use a mostly permanent removal method line electrolysis.

!There's always edge cases, though. Not everyone that goes through male puberty ends up with the same degree of hair changes. So there's people that just anti-androgens will cause enough reduction in the effects that it would be comparable to someone that went through female puberty. For some people, they can have massive testosterone doses and never grow a beard at all, they get a slightly thicker version of the vellus hairs; genetics can be weird like that.!<

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