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Even better if you can provide your own understanding of its meaning.

Mine would be :

"Nothing kills a man as much as being forced to represent a country" (and err considering the context, I must stress it has nothing to do with the current US shitshow), by a WW1 soldier, illustrator and writer named Jacques VachΓ©.

For me it just means being forced into representing a group (national, of course, but maybe also social, racial, sexual, professional, any kind of group) or defining one's identity only by reference to a group is to be avoided at all costs.

Note : Its not the same, imho, as engaging in a collective struggle or defense against a common oppression.

How about you?

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Those who don't know history are doomed to repeat it. Those who know history are doomed to know it's repeating.

It's the second part that makes this otherwise well know phrase hit much closer to home for me.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

"Everything you want in life has teeth", by the writer Jonathan Carroll. I believe it means that everything you pursue will hurt you in some way.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Hold on tightly, let go lightly.

The Croupier in Croupier.

It doesn't come with extra instructions, so it means what I want it to mean and someone else may have it mean something else entirely. For me it means hold on to the important things tightly while they are important and when they aren't then it is time to let them and other things go.

Don't carry things that don't need to be held onto, especially if you can't control them. I hold onto the memories of my sister both good and bad, I embrace the pain of her not being here anymore when they come, then I let the pain go because I keep ahold of the happiness she brought into people's lives while she was here.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Hmmm. I'll try to remember this one, thank you, that's a real gift.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Sadly, pretty much all struggles against a common oppressor take on heavy identity characteristics and have the accompanying problems. It's the main reason they don't work immediately.

Anyway, probably "What I cannot build, I don't understand", by Richard Feynman (although the exact wording varies by source). If I write a book that's probably going to take up the first page.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (2 children)

a collective struggle or defense against a common oppression.

What do you think WW1 was about?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (3 children)

And yet, a WWI soldier uttered that phrase. I suppose he did not share this view of WW1. Or he couldn't have wrote that.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

"It is not that we have a short time to live, but that we waste a lot of it." -Seneca

When we complain about not having enough time, we think of ourselves as being passively allocated an insufficient resource. But maybe the problem isn't that life is too short, but that we waste much of the time we're given.

I think this is relevant in these modern times more than ever. How much of our time goes to mindless scrolling, worrying about things beyond our control, or pursuing goals that don't truly align with our values? We should be thinking about the difference between being busy and spending time meaningfully.

And that's not to say all time spent should be something "productive". Leisure time can be meaningful. But I think it's worth even thinking about that. Are you truly happy with how you choose to spend your leisure time when you watch 100 short videos you probably won't even remember? Or when you sit there getting angry or depressed about article after article after article? I think it's worth thinking about.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Fortune favors the bold.

It was written in a graduation card from my grandfather.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I got two. First is just Hanlon's razor; "Never attribute to malice what can be attributed to incompetence"

The second one is a bit of a strange pick; its "But there's no sense crying over every mistake; You just keep on trying till you run out of cake."

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

I hate Hanlon's Razor. It's used as an excuse by and for too many malicious people lately.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

"Pride is not the opposite of shame, but its source" - Iroh

And

"Curiously enough, the only thing that went through the mind of the bowl of petunias as it fell was Oh no, not again. Many people have speculated that if we knew exactly why the bowl of petunias had thought that we would know a lot more about the nature of the universe than we do now." - Hitchhikers Guide

Dont think about things too much. Just accept it, and change accordingly with a response

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Came for the second, stayed for the first

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Also from H2G2, behold the majestic : " -Perhaps I'm old and tired, but I think that the chances of finding out what's actually going on are so absurdly remote that the only thing to do is to say, "Hang the sense of it," and keep yourself busy. I'd far rather be happy than right any day.

-And are you?

-Ah. No. Well that's where it all falls down, of course "

I like it even better in the movie, Bill Nighy embodies this sentence perfectly.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

It's all so tiresome - Lao Yang in the 2011 documentary Empire of Dust

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Work smarter, not harder.

Scrooge Mc Duck
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

"The stone cannot know why the chisel cleaves it. The iron cannot know why the fire scorches it. When thy life is cleft and scorched; when death and sadness leap at thee, beat not thy breast and curse thy evil fate. But thank The Builder for the trials which shape thee."

From Thief: The Dark Project

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