The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/Natural-Account-1733 on 2025-02-21 04:39:18.
I moved in with my girlfriend of 2 years and we’ve been living together for about a year now. The first year was good but it was very honeymoon phase of seeing each other a couple times a week for date nights and things like that. Fast forward to year 2 and living together and I’m losing my mind at the utter laziness & uselessness of my girlfriend.
My girlfriend practically brags about never having more than a 1/4 tank of gas which At first I thought it was what ever. In 1 year I’ve had to bring a gas can to her FOUR TIMES because she ran out of gas. She recently ran out of oil in her car which pretty much ruined her car after I told her for almost 3 weeks she NEEDS an oil change. She constantly snoozes her alarm and gets reprimanded at work. One time I was out of town on work and she calls me to tell me I need to call the cat sitter that I had to find for her cat because she is going on an impromptu cruise with her friend.
She will complain that we don’t have plans and expects me to coordinate everything about our life. Whether it is travel, food, cleaning, bills, plans with friends, holidays it doesn’t matter. If I don’t do laundry it will sit there for weeks, if I don’t do dishes they’ll sit there for weeks.
I could list 1000 other things but after the oil change situation I finally lost my top. Not only does she do all of these things she says stuff like “this only happens to me” and sulks about how hard her life is and how all these very regular parts of being an adult are so overwhelming which is why she needs me to do it. I finally blew my top after trying to be gentile with her for months. I told her to grow tf up and get used to it. Stop putting herself in overwhelming situations and take some fucking responsibility for the consequences of her actions. We’ve been fighting ever since and I just don’t have the patience anymore so I’m becoming more and more condescending sometimes on purpose some times subconsciously.
AITA?